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Sex Toy Society ~Edition 26

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Welcome to Edition 26 of the Sex Toy Society round-up of all the sex toy reviews written by Society authors over the past week.

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Q & A Swinger Style ~Lola & HH

Swinger Q & A

Lola and HH of mysexlifewithlola are hot bloggers with a very interesting lifestyle. I really wanted to include some hot bloggers in this feature. Mysexlifewithlola was most recently given a slot in the Top 100 Bloggers of 2012 (#35). They are a couple I have read about, fantasized about, and admired for a while.

They share their sexual exploits on the web. They have been playing like this for at least two years. Although they are a bit vague on all the details. I would really like to meet them in the flesh, but they play in a colder climate and there are a few states between us. The thing about their anonymity that is so intriguing is that this could be a couple you know. They could be your neighbors. This couple could be found anywhere in your community. They are a real sexy couple discreetly living out a fantasy sexual lifestyle.

While Lola and HH aren’t exactly typical swingers, they do enjoy sex with people outside of their relationship. There relations is a more one sided/open relationship known as a cuckold. Cuckolding is something we have run across in the lifestyle, although I have not mentioned it as such. It is close to swinging since their exploits do not lead to long lasting relationships or involve emotions other than lust. If a female wants to play and the man gets to watch, that is never really a problem for most swingers. This type of couple is usually well received in the lifestyle and can find plenty of action.

The way they meet people for play is not a shock to us. We have met some of our best hook-ups that way. The tone of the ad may sound harsh, but consider were this is going and you will understand the need for rules right from the jump. She spells her needs out perfectly. Even the lingo is typical of a swinger ad. Things like wanting to voice-verify and needing to see pics first tells me that this couples means business. Lola is a knockout that really has no problem finding men or women to play with. Don’t believe me? Just check out her calender….yes Lovelies, she is that kind of girl.

How did the two of you get into the lifestyle? Whose idea was it?

H.H. – First, I think we need to clarify a bit here.  We’re not exactly “swingers.”  Our kink is more Cuckolding.  To be more precise, Lo is, in the parlance of our times, a “hot wife,” though we are not married.  In our relationship she sleeps with basically whomever she wants, I don’t.  There are a few reasons for this.  First, Lo admits that she is not comfortable with my being with anyone else.  Second, I really feel no need to be with anyone else.  The question is how we got into this and I think we got into it because Lo (who is significantly younger than I) has a sexual appetite that exceeds my capabilities.  So, given that, and given that I’m very interested in pleasing Lo, I have no real need to have anyone else.  But, that said, I get a huge rush from hearing about Lo’s sexploits and/or sharing them with her.  I don’t really remember how we originally got into it, but it sort of developed naturally from Lo’s getting naked in front of my friends, hopping into bed with them, and doing other salacious things with people we interacted with socially.  When she saw that I not only didn’t mind, but enjoyed the flirting, we got a bit more serious trying to find her lovers and part-time boyfriends to keep her more satisfied.  

Lola – Baby, I was born this way!  


What was your first swinging experience like?

H.H. – We’ll I’ve given my point of view on this in the blog entry: “You Are The Best Thing – My Little Street Corner Girl.”  But here Lo can remark about it more from her point of view.  

Lola – Back seat of a car where I was penetrated in multiple places by multiple people. . . and it was all very hot and steamy until the copper showed up.   


How do you meet new people?

H.H. – So far we’ve met new people mostly through (sleazy as it may sound) Craigslist.  We’ve posted ads such as: 

Are you hard-up?  Are you handsome?  Hung? Healthy? D&D free?  Just need to get your rocks off on occasion and then split with no strings attached?  Well, then you may be for me.  I need a man who can come over on a moment’s notice, make me cum, and then leave on those nights when my bf isn’t home or is too tired for me.  I’m 1/2 of a Dec./May relationship (I’m Ms. May, of course) and my libido is too much for him to handle.  (Probably too much for you to handle too, but we’ll find out about that.) 

Musts: 1) Good-looking and fit (send photos to prove it); 2) Well-endowed.  (No need to show it in photo, but don’t fake it.  I’ll find out soon enough!); 3) Be reasonably literate (I want you to make me cum on the phone first.); 4) Be close by so that I can call you at 9, 10, 11, 12, or 1 for a quick one if I need it. 5) Be discrete. 

Must NOT: 1) Be looking for a relationship.  I have a loving man; I need more fucking; 2) Be disrespectful; 3) Interested in anything but sex. 

If this sounds like something you’re up for, then:  Send an e-mail with a pic (or four) and something about yourself.  Your pic gets mine.  If you like what you see, I will ask you to voice-verify.  If you’re good on the phone, then we can take it to the next level.




Within minutes we’d have 50 or more e-mail responses.  By the end of the day there would be hundreds to choose from.  99% of them were fake, ugly, didn’t follow instructions, illiterate, or disqualifying in some other way.  A small percentage of them were rude, saying things like, “Way too much work.”  Well, those guys have no idea what they’re missing.  And Lo certainly wasn’t missing out on them.  Once in a great while Lo would find a guy who was easy on the eyes, wrote a decent and interesting response, and voice verified in a way that made her want more.  

We’ve tried looking into other venues – swinger sites, swinger classifieds, etc. –  but for various reason we haven’t had much luck with that.  Interestingly enough, no one (or almost no one) has propositioned Lo via the blog.  Our readers seem to be more voyeurs than interested in talking to Lo on the phone or meeting up.  

Lola – We’re not really “in” a swinger life-style group and meeting people is really the biggest obstacle.  I can’t get my hands and mouth on enough of such couples.  


Does anyone in your family know you swing? Do your co-workers know? Has anyone ever tried to talk you out of your lifestyle?

H.H. – Certainly not anyone from our family (though there may be two or three people we could open-up to without judgment).  None of my co-workers know about my secret life with Lo.  Some friends know, but not all of them understand.  

Lola – I honestly think that when I tell people what I do, they either get freaked out so much that they don’t know what to say, or they are colleagues of mine in a field where, at least on the surface, the expectation is that we can celebrate and embrace all gender and sexual identities and expressions.  


What was your most memorable swing experience? Sexiest experience or most horrific hook-up?

Lola – None of them were particularly WOW!  And, thankfully, all of them were good.  Not one was horrific.  I’m still waiting for the BIGGIE!  (Or the 10 person orgy.)


Any pet peeves in the lifestyle? (things that are a major turn off/red flag for you two)

Lola – Allow me to list: 1) a person who can’t make eye contact; 2) a person with no opinion about anything; 3) a person who doesn’t insist on getting the bill, even when I’m willing to pay; 3) small endowments (of any kind); 4) Republicans; 5) people who hate their relationships, jobs, or reasons for being (without actually doing anything to change those things they hate); 6) people who kiss only with their tongues and not with their lips; 7) people who come on like they’re ready for this, but then back out; 8) anti-feminists; 9) wanting to do so many things sexually, but being in a place where that just can’t happen; 10) people who are not curious enough to inquire about my favorite subject – ME!  


Your advice to a couple(or single) new to the lifestyle?

Lola – Check in with yourselves and your partners frequently.  Proceed only when you feel like you and your partners feel safe, comfortable, and enthusiastic about moving forward.  This is not always as easy as it sounds.  Remember, this is supposed to be FUN.  

H.H. – Establish rules.  Be clear on hard rules vs. soft rules.  Follow the rules.  If rules are made to be broken, only break the soft ones, never the hard ones.  Does that make sense? 


I am always curious about the couples I meet and would love to give them a chance to share some of their stories here. I am going to be featuring a new established couple on each post. If you are interested in being a part of this Q & A just contact me and let me know.

Cool Stuff


I am a bit shocked about not winning the $550 million dollar powerball last week. You too?! WTF? I saw that some guy on the East Coast might be holding the winning ticket. He checked it on is way to work at a convenience store. Why would you go to work after winning that much money? I don’t think I would. I would be so distracted about all the ways that I think having cooler stuff is gonna make me more happy… Then again, I am really just guessing. Who really knows what they would do if they suddenly had that much money? I am sure every powerball ticket holder had at least a loose plan and a bit of hope. I don’t think I will ever really know. It is fun to dream about it. I know money can’t really buy happiness. But…

Miguel bought us a new bed. We had our bed less than five years and it was already giving us back pain. The new bed is memory foam which makes for a weird sleep experience. I woke up a few times and rolled over to discover that my body impression was still in the bed. This is gonna take some getting used-to. I have heard these beds are good for sex, I guess I’ll let you know… We did go out to the club this weekend. It was a really fun night. This past weekend was another Swinger Speed Dating night with my friend Rebecca Ammon at the club. We met a few new couples and partied with some good friends. We ended up only hooking up with each other but it was still a really great night.

I starting my new job. I hate and love changes. I am just hoping for a smooth transition. We had a great weekend with the kids. We took them to see the Santa parade and then to the city festival. I feel pretty content with the way things are going here. I feel like I am just running out of time. Like it is slipping away. I started Christmas shopping so that might be the source of my angst. The clock is ticking….

Speaking of changes, I was hoping to put a Christmas shopping guide together for those of you looking for sexy gifts. I try to stay out of the whole consumerism loop, cause I really don’t want to get all wrapped up in that muck. I do advertise though to try to make enough money to keep this blog from costing me and I have definitely felt the impact of something I have tried and failed to ignore. I like sex toys. I think they make a great gift because it shows you care. Last year I put a list together naughty toys. A year makes a big difference, almost none of those toys made my list. I am only gonna give you my list of absolute favorites. Keep in mind that I have over 100 toys in my collection, these are the toys I love and use the most often.

Clitoral Toys- I have a love for waterproof toys that travel well. The quieter the better.

Rabbits- Rabbits are great for dual stimulation. I have a few favorites.

Cock Rings- The right ring can prolong orgasm (for him) and add pleasure.

Wands- These are a great investment.

  • Hitachi (I haven’t reviewed this yet either, but it is a sex toy every girl should have)
  • Transcend Flexing Massager
  • Smart Wand (I have heard the large is better, I liked the medium enough to recommend it)

Dildos- Just the ones I love the most!

Other stuff that I use a lot.

If you decide to get something using one of the links in my reviews or one of the links on the right, I would be truly grateful. Happy Shopping!



The LELO Siri is a deluxe small clitoral vibrator. It is easy to use and has lots of functions and power. The LELO Siri has a unique rounded design that makes this vibe look more like a computer mouse than a vibrator. This vibe fits perfectly into my hands and its shape makes it perfect for nestling into my curves.

Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic

Dimensions: 3.75″ x 1.75″

The LELO Siri has some pretty unique features as it is lightweight and ergonomically designed. I found multiple uses for this vibe. It is without a doubt meant for clitoral stimulation, but it can also be used on nipples, perineum, labia, and any other place you might want a powerful vibrator to stimulate. The Siri has a 4 button interface with easy to guess controls. The (+) and (-) control the 6 levels of vibration. The (↑) and (↓) arrows scroll through the 6 patterns which are various speeds of pulses, waves, escalations, and a combo pattern that does what it wants.

Every time you push the buttons they light up. The LELO Siri is rechargeable and the port for the charger is located on the bottom of the plastic part, at the tip. It charges in 2 hours and gives about 4 hours of play time with a full charge (90 minutes if you run it on high like I do). The buttons illuminate when the vibe is charging and flash, they grow steady when the vibe is fully charged. The buttons will be red when it needs to charge. The LELO Siri has a locking feature which makes it great for travel. Just hold the (+) and (-) button for about 5 seconds to lock it. Do the same thing to unlock it when you are ready to use it.

The LELO Siri is powerful. It gives about the same level of vibrations as the Mia, but it is encased in silicone so it doesn’t feel as powerful. The whole device vibrated which may be bothersome to some. I was able to get off rather quickly so it wasn’t a problem for me. Also, I found I could use this toy hands free due to its unique shape after a bit of experimenting.

This toy is also pretty quiet, but not silent. My favorite types of toys are the strong, silent type. It is listed as being <50dB. I find it makes a bit more noise than my Mia. It makes a little bit more noise, but not enough to make me regret this vibe. This vibe is quiet enough that I don’t think it would be heard through a closed door. The design and functions offer enough variety to make this vibe something I will reach for again and again.

The LELO Siri is rounded, but then it has a raised bump on the underside of the silicone. The bump fits perfect when I nestle it in my labia. There are not any parts of this toy that could provide true pin point stimulation. The best I could do is to either nestle the bump, as I said, or to put just the tip of the silicone on my clitoris.

The LELO Siri is only compatible with water-based lubrication. I never needed any, especially since this vibe is meant for external stimulation. If you choose to use this as a massager, a little bit of lubrication will go a long way. The LELO Siri is not waterproof. (That is the only reason this toy didn’t get 5 full stars from me.) I wash just the tip with soap and water or use a sex toy wipe. Getting water into the port or the control panel would be bad.

All LELO toys come in deluxe packaging and include a storage pouch. Usually the pouch is the standard black satin drawstring pouch. The pouch for my Siri came with a white satin lining inside. The pouch is big enough for the Siri and for the charging cord. All LELO toys also come with a full one year warranty and a 10 year guarantee.

Review Summary
1 being weak, 5 being earth shattering.
The volume of the toy on it’s highest setting.
Material Safety.
Value of toy for the price.

The LELO Siri is available at Adult Sensations which is out of Canada. Adult Sensation also has a US based website here. Their prices are very competitive with free shipping on orders over $60. Adult Sensations has been in business for over 9 years and has a large selection of high quality toys.

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I received this product free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Q & A Swinger Style ~ Rich & Gina

Swinger Q & A

I am starting a new feature here on KissinBlueKaren. This is the first, in what I hope will be many interviews with a swinger couple.

Rich and Gina are a married couple that have been together for 18 years. They have been swinging for 13 years. I have personally known Rich and Gina for a few years now. They are the kind of people that know everyone and everyone knows them, or at least has seen them. They are the real deal. A super sexy couple with zero drama.


We’re looking for other couples and singles which we are sexually attracted to. We both take very good care of our bodies and are looking for others who do the same. Good hygiene is also a must…soap & water, deodorant, toothpaste & mouth wash are your friends. If you want to meet us, please make sure your pics are up-to-date! We keep ours very current. We want to meet who’s in the pics, not who was in the pics a year to 7 years ago! A lot can change in one year! We are not into only being “watched” or only “watching”. We are a full swap only couple and prefer separate room play after some girl/girl if the girl is truly bi and NOT being pushed! However, we’re not opposed to playing in the same room as we usually always do in the Hedo Room at Eyz on Saturdays! ;)

These two are living the lifestyle that some people only dream about. A very fun couple that are both enjoying their lifestyle choice.

How did the two of you get into the lifestyle? Whose idea was it?

There was a hot blonde that sat next to Rich in a class he was taking, the last night of it she gave him a really dirty letter telling him how she was going to fuck him.  He told me about the letter, and I was touched that we have such a close relationship that he told me.  As he was describing what the letter said, I was getting turned on and said, “She just wants to fuck you?  You know what, have her over, I want to watch!”

What was your first swinging experience like?

It was a love/hate kind of feeling (we full swapped).  It really turned us on and hurt our feelings a little at the same time, but we fucked the hell out of each other when we got home and for the whole next day after.  Then the next time we swung, it was all good.  Just the first time was a little awkward.

How do you meet new people?

Online and tell them to meet us at the club.

Does anyone in your family know you swing? Do your co-workers know? Has anyone ever tried to talk you out of your lifestyle?

Our parents know, but we are very private about it for our business.  We don’t want clients at work to know, it’s our private life.

What was your most memorable swing experience? Sexiest experience or most horrific hook-up?

Most memorable was the first time.  Most horrific was the time we met a couple out to dinner, then 10 min. after we’re there, they tell us that some friends invited us all over to their hotel room across the street for a drink.  Turned out to be a bareback hotel party!  The couple we went there with were on the other side of the place with God knows who, and a couple we weren’t attracted to grabbed us.  Yes, we left fast and in shock.

Any pet peeves in the lifestyle? (things that are a major turn off/red flag for you two)

Cleanliness.  Major turn off is bad body odor.

Your advice to a couple(or single) new to the lifestyle?

Don’t just look for one couple.  Always mix it up and keep others in rotation.  This will keep the drama out of your life and you’ll be happy swinging!

I am always curious about the couples I meet and would love to give them a chance to share some of their stories here. I am going to be featuring a new established couple on each post. If you are interested in being a part of this Q & A just contact me and let me know.

Ego e3 by Jopen


How lucky am I!? Jopen wrote and asked me to review one of their new toys from the Ego line. This silicone rechargeable vibrating cock ring is pretty and functions very well. Both Miguel and I enjoyed this cock ring enough to say it is one of our new favorites!

Materials: Silicone

Dimesions: 3” x 2.5”, 1.25”(ring)

The Ego e3 by Jopen is waterproof and powerful. The shell vibrated with the intensity of a Jopen toy. It takes only 3 hours for a full charge. We got 3 uses out of this before I felt compelled to charge it again, it probably could have went longer. The Ego e3 has only one button on the top of the middle of the shell part of the toy that controls it. The Ego e3 was delivered ‘locked’ for travel. To unlock it just tap the button 3 times fast. To re-lock, just tap it 3 times fast again. Like most Jopen toys, just hold down the button to turn it on and hit the button once more to turn it off. To increase the vibrations just hold down the button, it will flash. When it gets to the highest setting the blue led light will become solid.

The Ego e3 also features an almost silent motor. The motor seems to be centered on the middle of the shell design. The vibrations travel well throughout the ring. I was a bit overwhelmed with how powerful the motor was. The shell deign connected to the ring is soft and a bit squishy. The silicone is a bit tacky and will pick up hair and lint. The ring is stretchy and could go around the cock and balls with a bit of effort. It can be worn just around the base of the cock. Using a small amount of water-based lubrication will help with getting this cock ring on and off. Just don’t use too much or it may slide around during play. The Ego e3 can also be used on a glass, plastic, silicone or wood dildo for extra sensation. The Ego e3 can be used as a couples cock ring for mutual stimulation or used alone for solo masturbation.

The Ego comes with a USB charger. It connects through a small hole on the side. The led light will light up when it is charging and shut off when it is fully charged. I like the fact that this toy came with a USB charger, but I am a geek who spends lots of time on a laptop. This plug could go into a wall with a USB adapter, we all have one of those right? The only problem with this toy, other than not coming with a USB adapter, is that it doesn’t come with a storage pouch. The packaging was really deluxe though.

The box has a finger hole on one side and slide open on the other. The packaging had a foam cut out large enough for the toy, the cord, and a small booklet that talks about the features of the toy. The back of the box was really informative listing the features and benefits of the Ego e3. The packaging was nice enough that I actually made room and kept the box for storing the toy.

I loved this toy, I really can’t say enough about the design and power of this cock ring. This ring’s design was much better for me than any other ring we have tried. It is a bit constricting, which should make this toy better for prolonging orgasm. The only thing Miguel will tell me is that it wasn’t uncomfortable. He couldn’t really tell me if it felt better or worse than any other cock ring. I can tell you that it was actually able to reach my clitoris during sex. I like this cock ring more than any other in our collection.

All Jopen toys come with a year warranty, the Ego line also carries a one year warranty. Details of the warranty can be found here. The Ego e3 retails for around $112. The Ego e3 can be purchased at Eden Fantasys, HedoVibes, and SheVibe.

Review Summary
1 being weak, 5 being earth shattering.
The volume of the toy on it’s highest setting.
Material Safety.
Value of toy for the price.

I received this product free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Elastabind Restraint Corset Giveaway


I love hosting giveaways for you guys. So when Play Passion asked if I would like to host one for them, I jumped at the chance. Tis the season for gifts, why not nab a little something for yourself to add to your sex play? Play Passion is giving away an Elasabind Restraint Corset and as a bonus, Play Passion is gonna throw in an S & M blindfold for the winner!

Check out my review of this item, it is easy to use and comfortable. This corset is sexy fun and discreet enough to be worn as a belt.

This giveaway is real easy to enter with Rafflecopter. The contest is open WW and closes on Friday December 14th. The winner will be notified by e-mail and will have 48 hours to respond.

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Saturday Night Done Right -Part 2

Eyz Wide Shut

It was still pretty early in the night. We left their house around 9:30 and picked up a cake before heading out to the club. We arrived at the club in almost record time. The owner of the club took care of the cake when we walked in. The place was packed, everyone was enjoying the music and drinks. I was a bit overdressed for a night out, wearing jeans and a black tight shirt. Normally I wear a bit less. This did not go unnoticed, and more than a few couples commented on my attire. I gotta say that I was much more comfortable then usual. Being more comfortable I wasted no time getting my drink on before spending half the night dancing my ass off.

The club had a contest going on. They handed out 20 fake bills at the door to everyone upon entrance. They said to give them to the ladies. The contest made me extra motivated to make friends with everyone that I thought might have some money left to give me. I had collected a lot of paper money. Most of it from strangers. When it came time to see who the winner was a few couples came up at the last moment and added their money to my stack. I was delighted to find out that these folks recognized me from my website. I am not normally so damn social at the club. Saturday night was a perfect mix of loosing my inhibitions due to alcohol, celebrating good times, and really enjoying good company. I ended up placing 3rd and winning a cute butt plug which I promptly gave away to someone who said they recognized me from my website. The other winners were one of the birthday girls and a sexy blond who was also dancing her ass of that night.

At some point, I was outside with a bunch of people. Some one handed me a microphone. (Please don’t ever give a drunk gemini a microphone) It wasn’t on (thank god!) but we all enjoyed some “You lost that lovin feeling” karaoke impromptu style. Yes folks, it was that kind of a night. Drinking and debauchery, embarrassing crooning out of tune. I was totally that kind of girl on Saturday night!

The club was celebrating it’s 3rd anniversary. Every year on this night they pick a new Mr & Mrs Eyz Wide Shut. The couple that wins gets free membership for a year. This year they gave chips out to the regulars and then they let the audience decide who should win. We received a chip, but we didn’t win. It felt nice to be nominated. I really had a great time at the club. I am really looking forward to the New Years Eve party there. Last year it was crazy fun! Hopefully I will not be working that night. Next weekend is swinger speed dating with Rebecca Ammon.

So we drank, danced and flirted throughout the night. When it came time for us to go next door, we choose to play in the big hedo room. The room was packed and I literally had to move people over so we could have a place to play. There were quite a few couples just watching. People may think that in an orgy room it is all no holds barred fucking going on. The club is not like that at all. People are very respectful and would only join in if they were invited. The hedo room is a great place to play if you like to be watched. There are beds all over the room. I grabbed some towels and made us a space. We both stripped down and I had Miguel sit back so I could suck his cock. It didn’t take me long to get him nice and hard due in part by the view he had of couples fucking all over the room. Miguel reciprocated by licking my pussy as I laid back on the bed. Miguel and I also put on a bit of a show. I was on top fucking him at first and then he stood at the edge of the bed and hammered his cock into me as I laid on my back. He came with a grunt into me. We were both completely spend after that. It was a very good fucking night.

I went and cleaned myself up for the second time that night before we left to make the drive home. Last Saturday was one of the best nights we had all year. It wasn’t just the sex. It was being with so many people who enjoy the lifestyle. We are really lucky to be enjoying a sexy swinger lifestyle.