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Carrie’s Story Blog Tour Giveaway

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Cleis Press has agreed that I should host a giveaway for this BDSM story. I loved this book and I want you to win a paperback copy for yourself. Please check out my review and see why I loved this book. For more Carrie’s Story reviews please check out the blog tour.

 

Carrie’s Story is regarded as one of the finest erotic novels ever written—smart, devastatingly sexy, and, at times, shocking. In this new era of “BDSM romance,” à la Fifty Shades of Grey, the whips and cuffs are out of the closet and “château porn” has given way to mommy porn. Carrie’s Story remains at the head of the class. Imagine The Story of O starring a Berkeley Ph.D. in comparative literature who moonlights as a bike messenger, has a penchant for irony, and loves self-analysis as much as anal pleasures. Set in both San Francisco and the more château-friendly Napa Valley, Weatherfield’s deliciously decadent novel takes you on a sexually-explicit journey into a netherworld of slave auctions, training regimes, and enticing “ponies” (people) preening for dressage competitions. Desire runs rampant in this story of uncompromising mastery and irrevocable submission. 

Molly Weatherfield, the pen name of Pam Rosenthal, is also the author of Safe Word, the sequel to Carrie’s Story. A prolific romance and erotica writer, she has penned many sexy, literate, historical novels. She lives in San Francisco.

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Carrie’s Story -Blog Tour Review

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I am a big fan of BDSM. The players, the clothes, the scenes …makes my mind wander. I am intrigued by the lives of people that deal absolutely in pain and pleasure. I have read loads of BDSM, even before I knew what the letters stand for. I knew about Carrie before I read this book. I have read the reviews and I had an idea. Like flocks of others, I even read Fifty Shades. It made me think I knew what the book Carrie’s Story would be like. I didn’t. This book is different, it is the original tale of a woman who decides to become a slave.

Carrie’s Story is brilliantly written. The character of Carrie is strong and willing. She submits beautifully to a world I hope really exists.

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Things about this story seem fake, too good to be true, too harsh to be tolerated. This is fiction though. As fiction goes Carrie might be the heroine I have always wanted. She is cool. The author portrays Carrie as a young brave woman discovering her sexuality and exploiting her submissiveness. I adore her. I want to be that cool. The book is written in first person. We see inside Carrie’s mind as she submits.

Carrie meets Jonathan at a party. Jonathan invites Carrie to be his slave and opens her up to a world she never knew existed. The relationship progresses and Carrie’s training takes a new twist as Jonathan begins to train her for the next step in submission. She goes into pony training for a spell. Although I didn’t think I would enjoy it, I found I had to follow Carrie there. Carrie’s Story delivers on the secret world of pony-training and makes it seem not only believable, but also quite bearable. Carrie’s journey doesn’t end there. I don’t want to spoil it for you, but Carrie’s journey takes us for an unforgettable ride into slavery as I never imagined it.

There is an interesting thing about Carrie’s Story that is very different then other BDSM I have read. Carrie submits without regard to who or what she is submitting. She is a slave entire. There is not selfish gain in her slavery. The “relationship” she has with Jonathan is not the focus of her submission. She submits for her own growth. There seems to be no end to what she endures and no need for her to be validated from him alone. I find this sort of submission so alluring and frightening at the same time. This sort of submission is dangerous, in reality, but very entertaining.

Carrie’s Story is a bit explicit in its sexual detail but it doesn’t not read like smut. I found this book sexy and smart. It gave my erotic reading a smart story line and a character I could admire. Carrie’s Story is written by Molly Weatherfield (the alter ego of an award winning romance writer). The author brilliantly allows us to peer into Carrie’s thoughts to see her way of thinking. I highly recommend this book as well as the sequel Safe Word.

I received this book from Cleis Press for review. Soon after I started reading it, I came to the conclusion that I needed it on my kindle as well, so I could read it at work. I have this book in paperback and in digital format. I liked it that much. Carrie’s Story can be purchased here and here.

Molly Weatherfield, the pen name of Pam Rosenthal, is also the author of Safe Word, the sequel to Carrie’s Story. A prolific romance and erotica writer, she has penned many sexy, literate, historical novels. She lives in San Francisco.

You can find Molly on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/MollyWeatherfield and on Twitter at @PamRosenthal (https://twitter.com/PamRosenthal).

Blog Tour Schedule

March 24 - Shanna Germain 

March 25 - Lelaine

March 26 - Alison Tyler

March 27 - Romance After Dark

March 28 - Romance Junkies and Amos Lassen

March 29 - Sinclair Sexsmith

April 1 - Rachel Kramer Bussel

April 2 - KissinBlueKaren

April 3 - Dana Wright

April 4 - Erin O’Riodan

April 5 - Lindsay Avalon

April 6 - Laura Antoniou

April 7 - DL King

I received this product free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

©KissinBlueKaren 2010-2013

Bondage Giveaway

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As you can probably guess, Miguel and I play a bit rough from time to time. We have a nice little collection of spanking and bondage toys and I really get off when Miguel ties me up. We don’t have the best furniture for bondage so a while back we invested in some bondage aids to add to our collection. Two of my favorite items are the Bed Bondage Restraint Kit and the Spread the Love Bar, both from Sportsheets. These handy items are both really easy to use.

Play Passions has generously allowed me to host a giveaway of one these items for two lucky readers. This giveaway is for both of these items one for each winner. I would highly recommend either of these items for bondage play. The nice thing about either of these items is that they can discreetly be stored.

₪ The Spread the Love Bar ₪

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The total length of this bar is 15″. It is firm with a slight bit of give with a bit of muscle. This is a device aimed to keep the legs and/or arms spread during play. It has four velcro closure straps that measure 12″ total when unfolded. These cuffs will fit most players and can be adjusted (obviously). It can be used for just arms, just legs or both.

₪ Bed Bondage Restraint Kit ₪

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This kit contains a strap system which will fit any bed. It has 60″ polypropylene webbing strap connected to 4 straps which are all also 60″ long and adjustable for a tight fit. The four straps all have 2″ wide Velcro enclosure which will fit an extremity up to 14″ around. The straps tuck neatly under the bed for discreet play.

Enter to win one of these, just be sure to tell me which one you are most interested in. This giveaway is open worldwide and ends 3/13/13.

I have opted to use tweets as a way to enter for now to get the contest out there, but I may alter options to enter for daily entries. So check back for more chances to win!

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Something for the weekend

Cheeky Spanking Stories

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Spanking is something I enjoy. The sting of pain followed by the realization that I really needed that. The pain brings immediate release. This book explores spanking and some of the relationships it takes place in. It is cheeky and isn’t afraid of sexuality. It dominates and submits for the reader. It is a wild ride.

The book Cheeky Spanking Stories is a collection of 23 erotic spanking tales. It is edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel. The authors in this book include: Lucy Felthouse, Cecilia Duvalle, Craig J. Sorensen, Donna George Storey, Kiki DeLovely, Teresa Noelle Roberts, Giselle Renarde, J. Sinclaire, Elizabeth Silver, Kate Dominic, Elizabeth Coldwell, Maggie Morton, Evan Mora, Jade Melisande, Andrea Dale, Dorothy Freed, Cynthia Rayne, Shanna Germain, Thomas S. Roche, Adele Haze, Lucy Hughes, Isabelle Gray, and Rachel Kramer Bussel.

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This book describes exactly why spanking is my kink. Starting with the story The Perfect Domme by Lucy Felthouse. Mia forgot her roommate had her brother stay with them. Wearing her SPANK ME hot pants opens the door for him to prove his skills. The stories follow the curve and keeps it sexy all the way to the last story Marks by Rachel Kramer Bussel about a couple of spanking kinksters at an adult resort trying to be discreet.

This book explores hot spanking with no regard to sexual orientation. There are a few hot stories about men submitting to their lovers (both male and female), and women dominating other women. My absolute favorite story was about anonymous spanking. Butch Girls Don’t Cry by Giselle Renarde was steamy hot. Used, abused, and absolutely willing, this girl gets more than she set out for when she ventures out of her apartment. The Assignment by Donna George Storey is another hot number. A freelance author digs into interviewing a pay-for-play spank daddy for an article. She discovers why spanking isn’t such a bad thing, especially when the Dom is an expert.

This book was hot I highly recommend it! Cheeky Spanking Stories can be purchased here and here.

I received this product free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

©KissinBlueKaren 2010-2013

Handmade Vegan Flogger

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I love a good flogging! The smack of falls, the sounds, and the stingy pain. Something about the pain helps me to release. I know this is mostly an acquired taste. Most of my swinger friends do not play this way. One of my favorite memories was a night at the club when they had flogging demonstration. I was introduced to the BDSM community that night. I have been an eager student since then and Miguel and I have enjoyed discovering exactly what about this turns me on. Admittedly, Miguel and I only dabble in BDSM. Being submissive and getting flogged is something I really enjoy from time to time. When Agreeable Agony asked me what I might like to review on the site, I was overjoyed to see that they had a Handmade Vegan Flogger available.

 

I am not worried too much about whether something is vegan. Just so you know, it doesn’t matter to me. I liked the fact that this flogger was customizable. I liked the fact that it was shipped fast. I loved the fact that I learned the name of the man making it for me and that I could choose how big I wanted it to be. The flogger I ordered was the standard sized (it comes in small or giant as well). I was also able to pick the style of handle, I choose the dragon scale. The other styles of handle they offer are standard (wrap over wood) or deluxe (leather/vinyl style). They also give a choice of four sizes for width of the falls. (I chose the standard/medium falls) The price of the flogger you choose will change slightly depending on what style, size, and handle you choose. The one I received for review had 18 falls. The handle was a bit over 7″ and each of he falls were about 20″ long.

The flogger is made out of recycled materials, with rubber falls. The handle is a good size and the whole thing has weight. The flogger is over 30″ long. Miguel reports that the flogger performed really well for him. I can tell you that this flogger packs a punch. The site says that their vegan flogger is a bit more stingy than a leather flogger. They were dead on. The falls didn’t leave any marks, but the session had a bit more bite.

This may be because they cut all the falls at an angle. I couldn’t tolerate the long sessions with this flogger. The pain produced by this flogger is quick and intense. This would not make a good beginner flogger, except maybe for those overachievers that want to dive right in.

This flogger can be cleaned with soap and water if it becomes soiled. It is really easy to keep clean really. The handle has a loop on the end so it hangs easily. The nice thing about this flogger is that it if you do store it folded it won’t stay folded. The rubber will pop right back into shape.

We have purchased a few floggers over the years and I can tell you that this is one of the most reasonably priced floggers I have found. The only floggers we have ever bought that were in the price range of this flogger were mass-produced and wimpy. They were light weight and couldn’t produce a sting or a thud without wearing out the weilder. They couldn’t hold a candle to this thing. This flogger is heavy enough to produce a good smack. A handmade flogger at this price is a steal.

The Handmade Vegan Flogger can be purchased at Agreeable Agony. Agreeable Agony also sells rope, sensation toys, and candles.

I received this product free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Elastabind Restraint Corset Giveaway

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I love hosting giveaways for you guys. So when Play Passion asked if I would like to host one for them, I jumped at the chance. Tis the season for gifts, why not nab a little something for yourself to add to your sex play? Play Passion is giving away an Elasabind Restraint Corset and as a bonus, Play Passion is gonna throw in an S & M blindfold for the winner!

Check out my review of this item, it is easy to use and comfortable. This corset is sexy fun and discreet enough to be worn as a belt.

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