About Karen

I am a swinger. I am in a committed relationship with a sexy Latin guy named Miguel. I started this blog because I wanted to talk about our sex life. Being a swinger means I can’t talk about our life with, well… most people. Being a swinger is something of a taboo. I started this blog so I could talk about our exploits, and some of the funny shit that could really only happen to a swinger. I try to keep my writing honest and sexy. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes it is too funny to be sexy…..such is life!

I have 4 kids and reside in sunny Florida. I am a licensed professional in my vanilla life. Miguel wears a suit and tie to work everyday, he’s a professional too. We don’t have a lot of spare time, but playtime is a priority for us. We try to go out every weekend, and sometimes weeknights too. We don’t really get too much sleep around here!

Miguel and I have been in the lifestyle since very early on in our relationship. I shared the story of how it all started and our first swing. This site has given me a great outlet and I have met so many amazing people. For us, the lifestyle just makes sense. We have had some really great experiences and met some wonderful sexy people. We are a soft or full swap, prefer the full swap, thou. As far as what we are “into” the mood kinda determines it. We don’t play separately ever, so please don’t ask. We love to go out and meet new people. If you are in the area and interested in meeting us “in the flesh” contact me and we’ll go from there.

Lately there have been more reviews on my website. I love my hobby! If you want to know more about my reviews and adult product recommendations, please check out my reviews and advertising link.

I love to hear from my readers. I love answering questions people ask about the swinger lifestyle. I know it can be intimidating at first, and there are some unspoken rules. Most swingers are friendly and social people. If you send me a good question I may blog about it, anonymously if you wish.

E-Mail: [email protected]

Yahoo IM: sexxyblue09

FaceBook: KarenBlues

Twitter: @kissinbluekaren

FetLife: bluekaren

I ♥ to hear from my readers!

Somethings about me:

  1. I am a swinger.
  2. I am a writer.
  3. I am a mother of 4 (guess what I do for fun!)
  4. I review sex toy and adult products in-exchange for free stuff.
  5. I am passive aggressive.
  6. I am a submissive.
  7. I am borderline O.C.D.
  8. I have short-attention span, but it works for me….what? squirrel
  9. I like to drink.
  10. I struggle with nicotine addiction.
  11. I used to be in the Army reserves.
  12. I ran a marathon and raised over $3500 for The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.
  13. I like to watch “stupid t.v.” (jersey shore, mob wives, world’s dumbest).
  14. I am really smart, this makes me dangerous!
  15. I love to learn.
  16. I am narcissistic and selfish.
  17. I accomplish everything I set my mind to, unless I am bored of it!
  18. I am a Gemini, so I get bored of things easily.
  19. I like sex, a lot!
  20. I can orgasm by myself in <1 minute.
  21. I stopped counting how many people I have slept with.
  22. I hate ignorant people.
  23. I am a bit lazy.
  24. I am attracted to confident people, who are sometimes offensive to others.
  25. I am a professional in my vanilla life.
  26. My favorite color changes daily.
  27. If I hit the lotto the first thing I would do is get a boob job.
  28. I love new stationary.

Accolades KissinBlueKaren has recieved:

A Sexperthttp://realsextoyreviews.comInferno's Sexiest Bloggers 2011Jane's Guide Approval

Risque AwardRSTR People's ChoiceSex ForumsTop 100 Sex Blogger 2011


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  1. Ben says:

    Love reading your site! This about you page is great and informative. I’ve enjoyed the little bit of twitter talks we’ve had as well!

  2. Marcie says:

    Thanks for the website Karen !! We are ( newbies) and have just discovered Eyz Wide Shut what a incredible place!! I love reading your blog it helpswith some of the questions we have !! I am on ur FB as RandM Davis….
    Hope to see you at EWS!

    Hugs !

  3. H.H. says:

    You’ve been awarded the Gutter Blogger Award here: http://mysexlifewithlola.com/2012/12/14/awards/

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