Newbie Q and A

Swinger Q & A

We went out Wednesday night to a local Irish Pub. This place is a little hole in the wall really, but the drinks are cheap and the pool table was free all night. Miguel was leaving Thursday morning for a week on business. I was hoping for a night out before he left and I got my wish! Miguel had set up a date there with another couple. Just a meeting he said, no intentions of a hook-up.

Sometimes dates are like that. This couple was a newbie couple he met on craig’s list. People can say what they will about craig’s list, but I have found some awesome people on the site. I guess Miguel does a really good job of screening out the weirdos. This was just a meeting, but I dressed up anyways. I had on my tight jeans and a cute top with some sexy black high heels.

We got there and the couple was already finishing their first round. They turned out to be an awesome couple, and really sexy. They were a bit shy and totally new to the lifestyle. We sat at the bar with them and broke the ice. We had a few beers and decided to shoot some pool when the table opened up. I noticed alot of flirting from the guy, I guess the outfit paid off for a nice ego boost! Especially when I found out this guy was 24! Miguel made sure to bring it up later when we were having sex too, that I had a 24 year old wanting me….but I get ahead of myself. At some point during the game the guys were engrossed in conversation. I had already brought up the fact that I am a sex blogger and I love the lifestyle. The girl started in at this point with the questions….

The questions that come up vary some what with every new couple. They have the same theme though and I know this part helps with making a new couple (female) feel comfortable.

  • How long have you guys been swinging? 2 1/2 years
  • Who’s idea was it? his of course!
  • What was your first experience like? see How it All Started for this fun story
  • How do you deal with jealousy? We don’t have this issue. Miguel was really careful to make sure the first few experiences all about me. I trust him completely. Especially after he send me the whole conversation of a unicorn trying to hook-up with him behind my back! Cheating is not worth it in a swinging relationship. If I wanna fuck someone, why do it behind his back when he could be there to enjoy it? It works both ways.
  • Do you guys have any rules? Yes. We never play separately, and we always use condoms. Also, and this is really important, no one ever takes one for the team. If either one of us doesn’t like the couple, we don’t play.
  • Have you ever had a bad experience? Umm, yes. But in the end, the lifestyle is still pretty great. We have had a few lack-luster hook-ups and it just re-affirms that Miguel and I are fucking awesome together. When it sucks I am always so reminded of how well Miguel can please me, how well he knows my body. When it is great with another couple, we are both there to enjoy it. I enjoy watching him and he enjoys watching me.

Swinging is not a quick fix for a broken relationship, though. I always tell new couples that you have to love and respect your partner for this to work. There is alot of trust in a swinging couple or it shows. You don’t wanna end up being the drama couple that fights at every encounter! We always schedule time for ourselves. We have to have somethings that are just about us.

At this point, I gotta give her the spiel about how being the woman means she has the final say…on everything. It may have been his idea, but the women gets all the power. What I mean is that at any point she has the ability to say “stop”. It is that way because there are less women in the swinging world (hence the unicorn). A women can always get laid, her man had better bring his “A” game to every meeting. She liked this and it put her at ease. I swear it is so true and any woman in the lifestyle will tell you the same thing!

I am so used to meeting new people. I think we have a knack for putting people at ease. Miguel and I are just a typical couple. We really love each other and I hope new couples notice that. Swinging has brought us closer together. We have this awesome sex and we share that with other people. This couple said they felt at ease with us. I am looking forward to a more intimate enconter in the near future…

We played some darts with the couple and had a few more drinks (at least I did, I think Miguel had stopped drinking at this point). We had a good time and then we said goodbye. We got home and had some fan-nominal sex! We put both the glass toys to use and Miguel ended up cumming in my ass while I had a glass toy in my pussy and the MiMi working on my clit. I have two glass toys, one is about 1 1/2″ longer than the other. I worked one into my pussy and the other into my ass in anticipation of Miguel’s cock. His cock went in with ease and he gave me an awesome fuck to day-dream about while he is away.

In the meantime, I got a whole week without my Miguel to get me though! Oh Lovelies! What AM I gonna do with myself? I gotta stay busy, so I the time goes quickly! I’ll probably be on twitter all weekend, drop me a line….

Till next time, keep it sexy!



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