Masturbation Month and My First “O”

May has been Masturbation month since Good Vibrations started it in 1995.


Earlier that same month the Surgeon General, Dr. Joycelyn Elders, was fired for suggesting that masturbation should be included in sex education….what? Yes that is a fact! We live in a society where being open about sex can get you fired. Things have not changed that much since then.


It is a bit late, but I am telling you now and challenging you to celebrate this masturbation month by doing it every day!

Hey some of you already do, just do it because it is fashionable now!


I have always been curious about other people’s masturbation stories.  Or rather, the first time they achieved orgasm by themselves.

I’ll tell you my story.

I was pregnant with my first child.  Although I was a bit promiscuous in my youth I had never had the big “O”.  By the way, cuming and orgasm are not the same thing.

I didn’t know that…until, well back to my story.

The guy wasn’t with me for various reasons, mostly because he was not ready to be a father.  Anyways, my sister had a friend who sold sex toys at private parties and we held one at my house.  I made one single purchase that changed my sex life forever….a silver bullet from California Exotics.  It was a curious thing, but the girl with the toys said every woman should own one. A few days later I found myself playing with the bullet.  I didn’t know what to do with it really.  It had a cord, which suggested it was not really for insertion, so I played around with it a bit on my labia.  I gotta be honest and tell you that I felt pretty stupid.  Then I found my clit.  It felt pretty good there and so I played with it there.

And then….Oh My God!  What was that?  A shuddering orgasm.  I spasmed and got the warm tingely feeling all over my body.


It was all downhill from there.  I used that bullet daily, sometimes twice a day, to bring me to orgasm.  That was my sexual awakening.  I guess for most guys this will seem strange.  Some girls need clitoral stimulation to achieve the orgasm.  I don’t know how everyone else figured it out.  I fumbled my way into my first orgasm.  I can tell you now that a silver bullet is the one toy I would want on a deserted island…well that and a shit load of batteries!

I am very interested in your feedback.

So I put together some polls for you….





Although, I would really love you comments too!

One comment

  1. crazyhomebodygirl says:

    I masturbate weekly. I do feel guilty about it sometimes because there is still a taboo with it. Also my friends aren’t into it and neither is my boyfriend.I was like 15 or 16 when I first did it. I had heard about it and wanted to see what the big deal was. I use my hand most of the time and I get clitoral stimulation. I have a vibrator but I rarely use it because I find it hard to get off with it.

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