Archive for April 29, 2011

New Domain!

Hey Lovelies…those of you that made the move with me that is….

Google has deleted my kissingblue blog.

Bastards! I just happened to “find” all my content on a google reader, because Miguel subscribes. So that actually saved my ass!

Now that I got my own domain I am free to advertise for whomever I choose and whatever I choose. That was something I always worried about with google. Now I am free!

Sorry to all my Kindle subscribers for the repeat postings. You might see something you didn’t notice before. Yesterday and today I spent re-posting everything.

The good news is that today is Friday. TGIF Lovelies!!!

I think we are going to a house party tonight, with a certain couple that owes us a re-match! Don’t worry I will share all the sexy details with you.

Till next time….keep it sexy Lovelies!

Threesome Action!


 

I can’t wait to tell you about my new FWB!
We actually met this guy, (had a vanilla date), a few months ago but for varies reasons we did not hook-up for “benefits” until Wednesday night. He was really nice, and super sexy. He got a hotel close to where we live and we had x-rated fun there for hours!
We met him early, like six o’clock. Doing a date that early felt wrong, almost. I hadn’t got my drink on yet, it was still daylight, yada yada…. Anyways, Miguel and him went to get some Puerto Rican rum and coke and we had some stimulating conversation. This guy was very well spoken. Sometimes meeting people is awkward, not so with this guy. He was pretty easy going and there was no self-consciousness in his demeanor. A guy like this puts to question all the stereotypes people might have for “swinger”. He is well educated and sexy as hell!

Anyways….the three of us got along very nicely. He and I kissed and fondled and Miguel watched at first, then he got the camera out. Miguel is really into getting pictures, especially since joining zoig.com.

This one came out kinda fuzzy, but I still think it was a hot pic!

Some threesome action!

We had a really hot night! This guy had no performance issues what-so-ever!

 

 

 

……As you can see!

They took turns fucking me, till I was well spent. I get some great head. This guy had a vibrating tongue, I swear! It was really awesome! This guy was surprisingly rough too. I like it rough, so this was a pleasant BONUS! At one point he was fucking me in the missionary position and he had my arms pinned above my head with his hands. His cock was really long too, so it hit me in all the right spots.
We left there around 10pm. The guy said he could’ve gone again too. He is a definite keeper!
There are so many more great pics from this fucking session. I am saving some for later.

As you know, it is FRIDAY! TGIF BABY! I am sure Miguel has something sexy on the agenda.
It is really weird to not have to go anywhere anymore. I did get my state test scheduled, but until then…… I got nothing to do except play and look at porn on the internet…. Yesterday I didn’t get dressed until 1pm. Lazy days! I am going a bit of cabin fever here in this house, thank god for the internet (and Miguel for keeping my life so sexy!)!
Till next time Lovelies…. keep it sexy!

Cum Communication

Went out to Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa, FL on Friday night. It ended up being a weird night, thou.
We were suppose to meet the couple that cancelled on us earlier this week.
(losing track? so am I really, that’s why Miguel does all the scheduling)
Anyways, it was a bit slow there at Eyz Wide Shut. We played some pool and then sat near the DJ up stairs. The couple walked in and they were looking so fine….she in her black tight skin tight pants and he had just had a haircut, as if I thought he could look any better, he did thou actually!
Unfortunately, Miguel and I had communication issues.
We actually had a bit of drama in our relationship…it was just a weird night, and our game was all fucked up.
We always advertise “no drama”. We don’t fight in public, but when I am upset, I give him the silent treatment. Annoying, I know. I have a really sharp tongue and after years of cutting people to pieces with it, I have come to realize silence is golden.We worked it all out, don’t worry. A good fuck can fix any problem in our relationship….(sorry boys, no chance I will be solo anytime soon).
We saw the smacking couple from last weekend, with their clothes on, on the club side this time….they looked just as sexy when they aren’t fucking the shit out of each other…..They were really friendly. I heard from a pretty reliable source that they are a soft swap couple. We kind of did this already with them, hehe!
We did get to know some other “regulars” at the club a bit more. They were all advertising Caliente Resort on the first weekend of the month, due to an unbeatable entry fee of only $20. That place is like 49 miles from our house.
Maybe if we could stay over….it is so tempting, but I won’t be the one driving back after a long day at the pool and partying half the night. Plus, it is a nudist resort and I would have to buy everyone sunglasses so they could stand the sight of my pasty white skin.
So anyways, that is where everyone was hanging out last night. Everyone but us, that is.
We did have some ridiculously hot sexxx that night at the club. We got a room on the lodging side after some awkward silences between us in the club. Miguel and I picked a room with mirrors strategically placed on the ceiling, wall on the side, and the foot end of the bed. It is so hot to watch Miguel fuck me, I was so fucking turned on. Oh, I almost forgot about the saw bench thingy that we started out on…it was in the room too! I laid on it first on my stomach with my legs supported on the benches on each side. This was pretty hot but I couldn’t see. So I flipped onto my back and balanced myself there for a few minutes while he hammed his cock into my wet snatch. We eventually moved to the bed where we fucked like animals. Mid thrust Miguel asks me if I want some strange cock.
(there is always a few single guys in the hallways, hoping to get a peek in a room or, if he’s really lucky, get asked to join in the sex play)
I whispered yes into his ear. I seemed to remember a sexy Latin single guy out there somewhere. Miguel got up (butt naked) and asked him if he wanted to join in. I had on my little black dress and my fishnet thigh high stockings. I didn’t even bother to take anything but my panties off. So I was laying on the bed with my dress pulled up over my ass and my stockings still on. Miguel said something to him in Spanish and then Miguel walked over and put his cock back in my mouth. The guy was Cuban. He told Miguel in Spanish that he had to go get some condoms.
He never came back…
Stellar performance big guy!
That’s okay, Miguel took care of business! We didn’t wait for him to come back, we just went right back to fucking. I laid on my back and watched him thrust into me via the ceiling mirror. My baby is so hot! I played with my clit as he fucked me. I coated his cock with my cum. Then, I reached around and rubbed his perineum just to watch his face. Waves of pleasure on his face. So then I gingerly rubbed him around his anus. His face told me he was loving it. So then I carefully inserted my finger in his ass to stimulate his prostate, and he came loudly a few strokes after that.
Like I said, a good fuck fixes everything! No communication issues here.

Sexy Dance-ing

Last night we went to Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa, FL. I love going to this place cause the clientele is so damned sexy.

Miguel and I danced a lot last night, and got some nice compliments…..he makes me look good dancing. I am so fucking Caucasian, so having my Latin lover for a dance partner is awesome!
Some thing I can barely stand is when women ask me to dance….a pet peeve of mine. Dancing with other women always feels so forced, and I feel awkward. Worst thing is when she is only doing it to please her partner, and look sexy to him….grrrr! There are lots of girls who can do this shit effortlessly and put me to shame. I dance just because I love the song, or I wanna get closer to Miguel, not to try to look sexy. Cause lets face it, dancing ain’t really the thing I am best at, lol! Maybe this seems weird? I have actually ruined hook-ups by not dancing with the ladies.
Maybe they should try harder to turn me on and ask my man to dance, now that would turn me on! This could play out for both players too cuz what swinger wouldn’t want to see his chick dancing sexy with another guy? Sex is a form of dance right, between players?? Also, watching my man dance would make me more likely to wanna look sexy for him, by dancing with you.

….I think I am really alone on this thought trail….so I am gonna leave it….

So a girl asked me to dance with her last night, a smoking hot dark skinned girl. She radiated sexy from across the room. The first time I saw this fox, I had to try to talk to her. I felt plain jane in a room full of sexy competition, but I wanted her to see me. I hoped to get a glimpse of Miguel fucking her…her man was really hot, too! I gave her a card and tried to express to her that we were interested. She was doing all the talking at the table but I complimented her man too.
This was a few weeks ago….she remembered us, and when she saw me she asked me to dance. I obliged her request and after the dance,(which really wasn’t that awkward after all), I politely told her that I do not normally do that, and why…She said she had a hall pass that night and she wanted to use it on me. But just me. Her man likes dark skinned girls, and Latino girls….(should I mention here that her man was white?). Okay so she wanted to hook up with me and made it pretty obvious all night. But I didn’t want a hook-up last night with just a woman, especially if Miguel would only be a watcher. Last night I just really wanted some cock. I am regretting this now…..I missed out on all that sexiness. We were unprepared, I had no toys to help me out. The thing that really, I think, made it a “no” for me last night, was when she mentioned that she spied the blog and she thought I could teach her a few things……OMG the pressure! I don’t handle pressure. Yes people I am a bit of sex talker, yes I have had some fucking awesome experiences, but I am not an expert or over experienced at all. Like I said, I am almost a boobs lesbian and full of insecurities when it comes to women.
I don’t know, am I a bad swinger? I know there have to be other female swingers that are with me on this. I am with a guy because I love his cock. That’s how I get off. When we swing, I am not insecure with another man. I know how to use my mouth to please. I know how to get a guy to cum, usually….women are trickier. Our anatomy is pretty specific, and I still have yet to find my own g-spot… blah, blah, blah!

Okay, so Miguel and I went over to the lodging, sans company. I wanted to play in the dungeon. This is something that really turns me on lately….mmm, being tied up!! After a momentary confusion as to where to play, we ended up in the dungeon. At first we were alone, and got to pick where we wanted to play. We choose the cross and so I took off my shoes, pants and my panties. Miguel strapped me in. First my arms, then my legs, then he rubbed my clit, and tuned me a bit so he could smack my ass, then he kissed me aggressively…..yes that did get me a little wet.
Two more couples walked in at this point. One couple got right up on the table with stirrups (like at a doctors office), the were a young bi-racial couple. The black guy mounted the blond girl as she lay back on the table. His pants around his ankles and her dress bunched up around her waist. The were fucking and smacking the shit out of each other. She was smacking his ass and face and and he was smacking her back. It almost looked painful, but they were so fucking lost in the lust of their fuck.
They were fucking like animals.
As I watched them, Miguel went to slapping my clit and pussy, which made me even wetter. The other couple sat down across from us on the bed with the straps, and just watched. We were so ready for a good fucking session after all this sexy play. Miguel grabbed me a towel to wrap around me and undid my straps, we got in the first room we could find open. I sucked his cock, realizing how much I missed sucking his cock. It has been like two weeks. I got it so deep in my throat, I wanted it completely. He had me lay in the middle of the bed and then we fucked like animals, sans all the slapping….After an exhausting, earth shattering fuck with my legs wrapped around his waist and him hammering his cock into my tight pussy, he pulled out and came on my stomach.
After we got cleaned up and went back to the club, we met some people and I got the actual invite from the sexy girl that had been pursuing me all night…but alas, we went were fucking spent. The couple we went were super nice, and we almost went next door with them, (they were newbies!!). It wouldn’t have been our best thou, at that hour. We gave them a card, referred them to the blog, and hopefully we will be seeing them soon. We are getting up too early these days to make it an all-nighter……someday we will get back to that, hopefully!
I gave Miguel an awesome blow-job in the car. His cock was so hard it was level with his abs. I wanted him to pull over and stick it in me, but he just kept on driving. I argued with him in my mind, but he won, cuz it was really late and we were both really tired…so I layed the seat back and passed out for the rest of the ride home. I am such a bitch!

Lifestyle Mentors

Another awesome weekend! We went to Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa, FL…..again! I really love that club!
We went both Friday and Saturday night. We won a VIP pass a few weeks ago that gives us a discount on the entrance fee, so we are taking FULL advantage of it!
Sorry to say that we didn’t play with anyone this past weekend. Sometimes it is like that…
Of course we met some new people. We met a couple that comes pretty regularly. To be honest, I have not approached this couple because well….she looks like she is really focused on her man. They are both pretty focused on each other and I have never seen them talk to anyone. I really thought they just weren’t into other people (swinger club does not always = swingers only). I was wrong! She has an un-approachable look, but she is super-sweet. And oh did I mention sexy? Both of them are really sexy, but pretty shy. As a result of lack of aggression to pursue other couples (or singles) they have never had an encounter. I don’t wanna say how long they have been going to swinger clubs,…….but it has been a long time. We would have been happy to pop that cherry, but they did not get full access. There was mention of a hotel? Why would we go to a hotel when the club we are at has lodging right there?? Ahhh! Maybe next time. They have our number (card), maybe they’ll get bold.
Okay moving on….
We met some great people on Saturday….hopefully soon to be FWB! Saturday was a White Out Party at Eyz Wide Shut. Miguel and I dressed in white from head to toe. I wore some new white jeans with a white undershirt and Miguel’s dress shirt on and tied up with white sandles. We should have got pics, duh! Oh well! Miguel said it looked really good. I loved that many people there wore white. The black lights made everyone glow. We had more than a few drinks and danced so much I think I wore my thighs out! I talked to so many people and gave out some cards.

One couple in particular we met were newbies. They were smoking hot and young. I think I met her in the bathroom, typical me (I talk to everyone, making friends in the loo sounds so like me!). Anyways, they had a whole bunch of questions and Miguel and I took our time to try to answer honestly as much as we could. We encouraged them to do what feels good and to tell potential hook-ups their rules before play. *That was a lesson we learned the hard way* After about 20 minutes she said, “You guys are like our swinger mentors!”
Miguel and I just looked at each other, sure we’ll take on that role! We suggested to this couple to start off by what turned them on about it, being watched. We told them about our experience How It All Started. Later we saw this couple enjoying a little exhibitionism, fucking doggie style with the curtains to their room open. They had quite a crowd enjoying in pure voyeuristic fashion. We enjoyed the show as well! (Thanks sexy newbies!!!)

We do alot of talking to newbie couples. Swingers are suppose to be, by nature, friendly people. I have seen many couples talking to newbies and offering advice. This is a good thing. I recommend every new couple thinking about going into the lifestyle talk to someone that has been there. Most of what is second nature to Miguel and I now, is because we have had a bad experience and learned the hard way. We have also seen plenty of couples cum and go. They start off for the wrong reasons or don’t have any idea what this may do to impact their relationship. Then we see them on the site….they become singles. Or worse! They walk away, with the wrong idea of what the lifestyle is about, never to trust anyone enough to play again. So sad!
If you are thinking about the lifestyle, don’t be afraid to ask questions. Some great places to start are Swingers AtticGentle Nibbles, and or 7946437 (that spells SWINGER on a keypad). Swingers Attic and Gentle Nibbles have both covered a wide range of topics and they will answer a question if you submit it directly to them. Lots of swinger websites have forums Swinglifestyle has one here and there you can set up a free account and ask away.
Of course you can e-mail me directly…[email protected]. I will respond and post (anonymously if you wish) any questions that you ask of me…..
Till next time Lovelies! Keep it sexy

 

Three Times we’re out

Finally! I am ready to tell you about Saturday night. Is it too late?
Nah! It is only Tuesday, and this is a short week anyways…us Irish folks are gonna start the weekend on Thursday.
We went to Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa, FL….I don’t have the camouflage skirt in these pics put the stockings are enough to tell the story I think….

We ended up going over to the lodging side about three separate times. I knew it was gonna be a really hot night. I could feel it. We choose to go into the orgy room. There were people all over the room in various states of arousal and lust. I saw people there letting their inhibitions go. All the couples played separately, but together, in this massive room of sex.

 

We started out with Miguel licking and sucking to get me ready, but every session of lust ended with me riding his cock. I didn’t mind at all cause sitting up gave me a great view of all the sex going on around me. We had a few couples just watching. Some were just getting or receiving oral, most were fucking. Feeding off of all the sexy people in the room. I saw a couple across from us and he was jacking his cock on her clit. He was probably trying to get it hard, but she was getting off on it and it was so damned sexy to watch.

Mind Vomit 2

Another busy week for Miguel and I as we navigate our busy lives with an active swinger lifestyle.
Wednesday night we went out and met a newbie couple at a vanilla location for a “date”. We met this couple via an ad we had out looking for someone to host us….I am beginning to wonder why we bother because of course no one was actually available to host us that night (when was that last satuday? i can’t remember). Anyways, Miguel has made a few new friends via the ad that he has been talking to all week. This particular couple was super nice, but guess what?? She doesn’t speak English! She was sexy enough for this not to be a real issue, since Spanish was her native tongue, Miguel and her man double talked every bit of the conversation in both languages. I think we made a good impression and they are on our “to do” list as soon as we can get our schedules to match up.

We have a wedding to do this Friday. Miguel is gonna officiate it (un-officially, since they are technically already married). We met this couple about a year ago, soft swap. The were both married to other people at the time. I think they were acquaintances, and then they just hooked up? Their love story is something of a fairy tale, since they both found each other at the right time, and now they are gonna live happily (and fulfilled sexually) ever-after. They are really sexy, and great hosts. We met them online. We had a couple drinks at a local restaurant, and then they took us home…. This couple kicked our asses at “spades”, after much shit-talking from Miguel and I. We have seen them a few other times after that, including the “sexy ass bitch” night, where we played in the same room. It has not been exclusively us and them though since that night, but we will most definitely play with them again. We were pretty surprised when we got the call that they wanted Miguel to be in the wedding. I am sure it is gonna be a great time and hopefully Miguel will not choke as he leads the ceremony (no pressure hunny!).
Okay, the point of all of this backround information is that they took us out to eat on Friday at a nice place on the beach. It was just a “date” but I know we both wet our appetites for a future hook-up….after the honeymoon of course! We saw this couple again last night when we went to eyz wide shut. They are total exhibitionists, and very sexy. We caught them last night fucking in one of the playrooms, with the curtain open, and we watched. (who doesn’t like a good show?) Very entertaining, totally lube worthy. Her legs up over his shoulders and his ass pumping his cock into her, mmmm! Good stuff!

I wanna tell you about our experience playing last night, but I feel I need to get some photos done first. I wanted to wear something green yesterday, since st.patty’s day is around the corner. We looked around but I couldn’t find any sexy green panties, I guess there is only really a market for that around this time of year? I have a cute little, (very little), green camouflage skirt, and I wanted to wear thigh highs with it. I was going to wear the garter belt and everything. One the way to the club, as I was changing in the car (you know, cause I can’t leave the house looking like a slut cause my children might see) my stockings got caught on something that caused a runner, and I couldn’t wear them. Damn it! BUT, I remembered that there was a naughty clothing store right down the street, so we stopped and I got some thigh high fish-net stockings to wear. The looked really hot, and I didn’t even need a garter belt with them.
The point of all this back round information is that I am gonna wait to tell you about last night, till I get some pics to accompany the story….so stay tuned Lovelies, more to come soon.

Friendly Friday

This weekend we did not go to the club.
I know, WTF?  Money is kinda tight right now so we decided not to go.
We did have some fun Friday night thou….

I invited my best friend over since she had a recent break-up with her loser boyfriend of two years and it was her birthday weekend.  A single guy I know wanted to meet her, so we went over his place.  This guy is good looking, a great host, and he has a hot tub, so it didn’t take too much to talk her into it.  (I have never actually had sex with my best friend right there, and I am pretty sure this was her first swing with another couple.)  I tried not to think too much about it and I went with the flow…..had a few drinks, got naked, got in the hot tub….played with Miguel….rode to orgasm on one of the jets…..had sex with Miguel with both of them watching.
I got right up on Miguel and rode his cock in the hot tub. He was sitting in one of the corners of the tub and I fucked him like a frog.  Ahhh slippery sex with an audience, I loved it!
I am such a slut!
I noticed that they were getting to know each other better, too. I couldn’t see it cause of all the bubbles but there was definitely some manual manipulation going on under the water.
I decided we should go in the house and fuck on his king sized bed.  I sat down and sucked Miguel’s cock, not that it needed and help from me…he was rock hard and I could taste his pre-cum.  When I stopped Miguel motioned for me to lay back, so when the two of them walked in that was what they saw.  Miguel’s face buried in my pussy, and me writhing to his titillating tongue.  I heard them talking in low whispers and then the guy appeared on the bed next to me.  He was on his knees with his cock in my face and I engulfed it into my mouth.  It was difficult to concentrate with Miguel working on my pussy but I did my best to suck his cock and lick his shaft and balls.  Then I felt warm breath on my face and smelled the cigarettes on her breath as my best friend got as close as she dared to the cock I was loving with my mouth.  The guy told me later that she was extremely wet from watching me and totally ready to go after this.  He pulled his cock out of my mouth and buried his face in her pussy, just as Miguel was getting his cock ready to enter me.  When we re-positioned, he had her bent over the bed and was fucking her from behind.
Miguel and I fucked like we hadn’t had sex in a week with grinding and moaning and hunching to relieve the pressure of our stressful lives.  I got what I needed to feel whole again as he fucked me.  He had his eyes closed every time I looked at his face, the fuck face that tells me he is enjoying the feeling too much to look.  We were both getting exactly what we needed with this fuck.
I looked over again and she was fucking him while he lay on his back.  She had her knees hiked up for better leverage and she had her eyes closed, off somewhere else as she rode his cock to orgasm.  She came with a loud moan and Miguel and I climaxed together shortly thereafter.  Later the guy told me that after I left the room to get cleaned-up, he had just talked her into letting Miguel have a try.  Sexy whispering into her ear that double penetration would be so fuckin hot, and she said yes.  Miguel didn’t know, and he was spent anyways, as he walked out of the room. Missed opportunity, maybe next time…..

So that was our Friday night excitement.  We got traditional Taco bell on the way home and my best friend stayed the night with us.
Saturday and the better part of today were spent trying to get one of our vehicles fixed, and we were successful.  I feel so good that I was able to help Miguel with this endeavor.  I found time to go to the gym with all my kids in tow and I actually got some homework done.  We might have something with a single guy lined up for tonight so stayed tuned. The weekend isn’t over yet!

I have got some interesting comments on the masturbation blog and the poll. People are seriously getting off, by themselves, a hell of a lot more than I expected.  Glad to know we are all perverted and into pleasure.

The results were that most people masturbate 1-3
times a day. Shocking! Okay, maybe not so much considering the content of my blog….. I only masturbate about once a week now but when I was single it was at least once everyday.

An equal amount of people like newbie and experienced couples. I like experienced a bit more, but I have had some great newbie hook-ups so I don’t really have a preference.

And most people use AFF or SLS or “none” to hook up with new people. I would say we have used AFF for some and SLS and some we just meet at clubs. I am gonna assume my audience is about the same slutiness as me……yum!

I got some new polls up, so get your vote in.
Want more pics? How would you like daily pics? How would you feel about some pics of me suffering “jungle fever?”
Leave me a comment and tell me what you more of, (or less). If you are reading me on your kindle (thank you!) and feel free to contact me I would love to hear from you.