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Being Submissive -by Molly’s Daily Kiss

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I get a lot of people asking me questions about being submissive and being in a 24/7 D/s relationship and I always do my best to answer them truthfully and openly. I am not ashamed of being submissive despite some of the negative connotations that are attached to the label I am still happy to identify myself as such, but then I know what it means to me therefore my willingness to answer questions when people send them my way, but recently I had one that made me laugh;

“How does your normal day differ from mine?”

My initial reaction was, as I said, laughter, because the honest answer is actually.

“I have no idea, what is your normal day like?”

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Cheeky Spanking Stories

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Spanking is something I enjoy. The sting of pain followed by the realization that I really needed that. The pain brings immediate release. This book explores spanking and some of the relationships it takes place in. It is cheeky and isn’t afraid of sexuality. It dominates and submits for the reader. It is a wild ride.

The book Cheeky Spanking Stories is a collection of 23 erotic spanking tales. It is edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel. The authors in this book include: Lucy Felthouse, Cecilia Duvalle, Craig J. Sorensen, Donna George Storey, Kiki DeLovely, Teresa Noelle Roberts, Giselle Renarde, J. Sinclaire, Elizabeth Silver, Kate Dominic, Elizabeth Coldwell, Maggie Morton, Evan Mora, Jade Melisande, Andrea Dale, Dorothy Freed, Cynthia Rayne, Shanna Germain, Thomas S. Roche, Adele Haze, Lucy Hughes, Isabelle Gray, and Rachel Kramer Bussel.

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This book describes exactly why spanking is my kink. Starting with the story The Perfect Domme by Lucy Felthouse. Mia forgot her roommate had her brother stay with them. Wearing her SPANK ME hot pants opens the door for him to prove his skills. The stories follow the curve and keeps it sexy all the way to the last story Marks by Rachel Kramer Bussel about a couple of spanking kinksters at an adult resort trying to be discreet.

This book explores hot spanking with no regard to sexual orientation. There are a few hot stories about men submitting to their lovers (both male and female), and women dominating other women. My absolute favorite story was about anonymous spanking. Butch Girls Don’t Cry by Giselle Renarde was steamy hot. Used, abused, and absolutely willing, this girl gets more than she set out for when she ventures out of her apartment. The Assignment by Donna George Storey is another hot number. A freelance author digs into interviewing a pay-for-play spank daddy for an article. She discovers why spanking isn’t such a bad thing, especially when the Dom is an expert.

This book was hot I highly recommend it! Cheeky Spanking Stories can be purchased here and here.

I received this product free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

©KissinBlueKaren 2010-2013

BDSM?

I have so many questions that remain unanswered. After a live demonstration and some adventures into spanking and submission. I wanna delve further. But how far should I go? What kind of people enjoy this kind of stuff? Is it gonna turn my partner off completely?

I post these questions here, because some of you might be feeling the same way. I peek into the world of BDSM and so much about it appeals to me. I was so jealous of the girl on the St.Andrew’s Cross with the reddened ass from being whipped. The Master who held the whip captivated me. So cool and calm as he delivered the punishment. That punishment became her release and I so wanted to be her! I envision this for Miguel. This is a role he could easily slip into. We purchased out first paddle this year. Now I am looking into whips and I feel like I want to really go there! Does that sound terrible, or terribly scary?

As I explore more, less is shocking to me. The first time I heard about a person getting off on pain, I was so turned off by it. Pain and pleasure together didn’t make any sense to me. Now I just want my hair pulled as I get fucked. I want the red marks and sore spots that remind me we played rough last night. I want my punishment for every bratty thing and annoyance I have cause Miguel. I want it and this is what really turns me on. Am I getting jaded or have I been like this all along and just too prude and proud to admit it? I like being ordered around, I don’t want to have control. I want to just let go and enjoy the safety net of someone who loves me and has all the control. Yet, my aggressive personality will not let go. I want to choose. Is it all or nothing? Gawd, I hope not!

We are looking into local clubs where I can exploit this new fascination. I am almost afraid of what we will find. So this is our new mission, to go and see for ourselves.

Been there, done that? Leave me a comment, tell me about it….