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Girl on Girl

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I had a really interesting few days off. I slept all day Thursday after working Wednesday night and then we went out. Miguel had scheduled what we both thought would just be a meet and greet with a local couple. He mentioned they were “new”. When we met the couple at a local bar they explained that they had only been with one other couple. She was a bit experienced, but for him this was all new. For this couple the interest really was in girl/girl and soft swap due to his apprehension. Interesting since it is usually just the opposite. Anyways, we chatted for about 4-5 drinks and then they took us home.

Once we got to their place they offered us a drink and we made some small talk. I would try and run down all the details but they are a bit foggy. Fast forward to naked on the king sized bed. Once we got there it was all lips and labia, nipples and tongue, fingers and frigging. We kissed and explored each other, the guys watched with their cocks in their hands. I can remember that she tasted very good and I licked and sucked her clit while I finger fucked her. I enjoyed fucking her and she seemed happy fucking me. Like we couldn’t get enough of each other. We both lent a hand or a mouth to the guys so they wouldn’t feel left out but then rushed back to each other. I sucked Miguel’s cock as if I only had this night to enjoy it while she licked and sucked me. Miguel had to push me off of him more than a few times so he didn’t cum right then. The sexual depravity that occurred in this room was a rare event. I came on her thigh, her fingers and her face. She was drenched and came as I fingered her g-spot while I licked and rubbed her clit. This went on for a few hours until we finished the night off by each fucking our men until them came real good.

It was a really hot night. No pictures sorry, you will just have to use your imagination. I wish I had it on video, I know it would have been hot to watch. I enjoy being watched, knowing Miguel is enjoying the view. I am sure her man didn’t mind the scene this night either. I can tell you that I was actually sore from all the girl on girl that occurred. My nipples were sore the whole next day. They usually don’t get that much attention. Shame really, because I do enjoy nipple play. Of course my pussy was sore as well, but I am a bit more used to that.

This experience is exactly the sort of thing I had in mind when we started to swing. It is unfortunate that all encounters are not like this. I think we may have made them both want to explore more with swinging together. He expressed that he had a great time and was very happy no boundaries were crossed. I tweeted wrong when I said I enjoyed showing this couple how to swing. I doubt I taught her anything. I just hope he feels better about swinging now. After this experience, I know I do.

Lending a Hand

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Last weekend Miguel and I went out to a swinger gathering. As usual, when we hit this type of venue, Miguel had several couples lined up that we were going to meet in person. Some of them for the first time after chatting online for months. The turn out at the venue wasn’t that impressive. We were one of the first couples to arrive and one of the last to leave. At the last moment a couple invited us back to their hotel for some after party fun. We were more than happy to oblige.

We got the hotel and they offered us drinks. It seems they were prepared for fun. The room was pretty nice with a separate sitting room and a king sized bed in the bedroom. Miguel found a great way to break the ice and whipped out the blindfold. We blindfolded her and I helped her out of her clothes. I led her over to the bed and had her lie back. I took off my corset top and kissed her. I tweaked her nipples and then her husband handed me some toys to play on her with. A bullet for her clit and a slim vibrator for her pussy. I rubbed the bullet all over her clit and slowly eased the vibrator into her. I am usually more oral, but this couple was a soft swap. I didn’t want to ruin everything by going too far. We hadn’t discussed if she was interested in playing with me, just that they weren’t interested in a full swap. I looked for cues that she was enjoying herself. She was very wet but almost silent as I played. Her man took pictures of the action. Miguel got up on the bed by her head and held her arms while I worked on getting her off. After a while I grabbed her hand so she could control the amount of pressure of the bullet and I handed the vibrator to her man. I took off my skirt and panties and got my own vibrators out. I stretched out next to her to work on getting myself off while her man and Miguel watched. We fucked like animals after that. It was a great night.

 

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Friday Night at the Club

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So we went out on Friday night to Eyz Wide Shut and we went as a soft swap couple. We drank and danced and had a great time. Fridays at the club are sort of hit or miss and the club was not packed with people we knew. I gave the DJ my preference for songs and hit the dance floor. Sad to say that most of the club had voyeurs and not too many people were bold enough to dance. I didn’t really care if I was the only one out there at times. I love to dance. After a few really good songs a sexy chic in a black dress came out and danced with me for a bit. She danced close and we kissed a few times. Miguel did what he does best and went over to talk to the guy. This couple was very sexy. I think this was really fate, they were soft swap only as well.

This couple was alot of fun. They sat and chatted with us for quite a while. We did go outside with them a few times. She bummed a cigarette and we talked about quitting and how sometimes it just sucks. I am still vaping, but I must admit that I bummed a cigarette too. I just needed a reminder, cigarette smoking is part of this routine I have at the club. Hopefully not anymore. The cigarette tasted awful honestly. I don’t think I will have another.

Eventually, we finished our drinks and headed over to the lodging side together. We ended up in a private room, just the four of us. Some how we have never been in this room. I swear I thought we had been in every room. Anyways, it was a small room with two beds side by side and lots of well placed mirrors. We got in the room and all took our clothes off. She started out by sucking her man’s cock, and I sucked Miguel off. She had an amazing body. This girl was pretty amazing. She was so sexy and sensual.

We had some great girl/girl play. She licked and sucked my pussy so well. She had a neutral taste and I enjoyed playing with her and eating her pussy as well. I could have swore that they said they were “newbies” but she had no shyness about her. She explored every bit of my pussy with her tongue and then she went back to fuck her man. Miguel ate out my pussy while she kissed me and played with my tits. There was alot of touching and stroking while we all had sex. She even ate me out while her man fucked her from behind, Miguel had a nice view of that. Miguel fucked me so good. I got on top of Miguel at one point and I was going to use a toy on my clit. It ended up that the toy was completely dead. How the fuck? Oh well! I was so mad about the toy that I threw it across the room. (I didn’t break it, thankfully) I got off plenty when Miguel used his finger to rub my clit while he fucked me. I reached over and rubbed hers while her man fucked her. I think her man ended up coming on her beautiful tits, but the details of that are a bit foggy. We both came home exhausted and I fell right to sleep. I know we all had a great time.

Us Lately

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From Urban Dictionary:

 

  • Soft Swap- To share spouses/mates with another to the point of digital and/or oral copulation only
  • Full Swap- sex with another couple where both couples swap partners, such as the guy from one couple with the girl from the other couple and vice-versa. This is often done in the same room but applies also when separate rooms are involved.

 

Miguel and I have decided to take a small step back and consider only soft swaps at this time. The toll of moving and other life stressors have strained our once wonderful relationship. We have spent too many days lately with very separate agendas. I know neither of us is ready to call it quits on this love. The solution, which has been very good for us, is to take other people out of the sexual equation. This small shift has narrowed our focus and greatly improved our communication.

Maybe this sounds obvious to an outsider. It was not completely obvious to us. Miguel and I have been swingers since about a month into our relationship. We have always done this, so it was really hard to make this decision. I know we don’t want to remove “the lifestyle” from our lives. We have made some good friends in the lifestyle and neither of us is willing to go back to only vanilla settings. How awkward only going out to regular bars would be after all the swinging we have done. Although we do occasionally hit a local pub to play some billiards, it would be somewhat less exciting if that is all we did anymore. Almost all of our good friends are swingers. I am a big advocate for this lifestyle. The lifestyle for us has made almost all of our sexual fantasies reality! We have grown as a couple and explored things together. I know that I trust Miguel more than I have ever trusted before. I have overcome fears and shyness that have plagued me my whole life. The swinger lifestyle is fun and exciting, every weekend we can explore something new. For us, it has been great sexy fun. It is something we always look forward to. Our sex life has never been boring.

But….

I think our experiences lately have been a bit less than exciting for at least one of us. We tend to focus almost entirely on what the other couple is comfortable with, so we are not getting as much out of what we give. Since sometimes we don’t have sex at home as much as we would like, (due to kids, work, whatever), our weekends out have become our main event. If our weekend involves a full swap, we might lose our weekly chance to be together. I know for a fact we are not alone in this. I have heard similar complaints among swinger friends. This along with all the extra stress, has been putting a strain on our relationship. The solution, for us, is to be soft swap only. This way I can focus on him and not feel slighted by a less than glamorous hook-up.

Communication is such an important thing for any couple. Swinger couples have to be extra careful and keep those lines open. I don’t want to ever be that couple that hook-ups without my partner being a part of it. I know couples in the lifestyle that unless someone told you, you would never know that they are together. They don’t have any physical contact with each other. To an observer, it looks like this is their escape from sex with their partner. That is fine for them, but I don’t ever want to be in that relationship. The best part of swinging for me, is watching Miguel in action. Looking over and seeing him watching me. We always talk about it after, and it enhances our sex at home. I think I am really lucky that Miguel and I can be so honest with each other. First to try swinging as a couple, then to remove ourselves from it a bit to focus back on each other again.

Off to a Sexy Start…

Eyz Wide Shut

I have so much I want to tell you. Our New Year’s Eve went off splendidly! We met up with a group we usually meet at Eyz Wide Shut. One of the couple’s we party with was having a gathering at their house with food and drink. It was a pre-Eyz party for everyone. After a few hours of greeting and drinking, and a bit of playful kissing and fondling, we went like a convoy to Eyz. I was really feeling joyful. I think everyone was happy about saying goodbye to 2011.

When we got to Eyz Wide Shut we found the parking lot almost completely full. There were hundreds of people there. The place was packed. Everyone was drinking and dancing. There was alot of flirting going on….I think everyone I have ever met at Eyz was there, people I hadn’t seen in months and all the regulars. There was a slue of new people, as well. We met alot of people that Miguel had talked to online before, but never met in person. One couple we sat and talked to for a bit we ended up meeting a few days later for drinks. We technically didn’t hook-up with anyone else on New Year’s Eve. We both make out with a few people. At the end of the night though, it was just Miguel and I having sex with each other, which was fine with me. I didn’t really want to risk ringing in the New Year with bad or awkward sex. It seemed right to toast 2012′s first moments surrounded by swingers, amongst my favorite people in my favorite club.

So yea, the New Year got off to a good start. Miguel and I had some excellent sex before leaving the club. I almost drank too much, I say almost because most of the night is kind of a blur, but I didn’t over drink and wake up hungover. It all worked out, made it home safe and made some new friends.

The next day Miguel was busy answering texts from the sexy couple we met at the club. Seems a bit strange to try to make a hook-up after meeting them at a place where we could of hook-ed up right? Not really, considering the night’s importance and the fact that when the club is that full it is sometimes hard to get a room. (Flash back to Halloween weekend) It actually wasn’t over crowed when we went over but I think we got extremely lucky. We finally met up on Monday night. We me them at a pool haul. It ended up being just a vanilla date. We will be meeting them again though, I am sure. There was a lot of flirting and I think we all clicked really well. The odds of four people getting together and all of them being attracted to each other are pretty low, so every time it happens I think it is a small miracle.

Last night we had a date with a couple we have known for a few years now. We don’t see each other that often but we have a few mutual friends. They are a soft swap couple. The first time we met we played spades and got our asses handed to us….it was definitely time for a re-match! They invited us over for dinner, spades and orgasms. What a fun night we had. We ate some steaks. Mouth watering, perfectly cooked steaks. Then we played some spades, we played better this time, but we still lost. It wasn’t by much though! Then they got busy kissing and fondling. Miguel was taking pics and I was taking my clothes off… He entered her from behind and I kissed her. She had her hands all over me and brought me to orgasm with her fingers. He stopped fucking her and we tried to incorporate the Tango into play but in the end it proved too frustrating and I gave up. Besides, we had plenty of cock there and a dildo is rarely as good as the real thing, especially when it is wielded by an inexperienced fucker like myself. He pulled the lover’s couch over,(they just happened to have in their living room), and he bent her over the side. She had me lay back on the bottom of the sofa with my pussy in her face. The angle gave her man access to her and he fucked her doggy style while she ate me out. Miguel came up beside me and put his cock in my mouth. I sucked it while she brought me off with her tongue.

At some point, I knew it was too much for her to concentrate anymore, so I slid off the couch and had Miguel get my bag of toys. I really wanted her to get off good. I couldn’t get my hands at a good angle to reach her. Instead of asking them to change positions I handed her the 7 function power play bullet so she could work her clit. She climaxed good with the aide of her lover’s pounding her from behind. Miguel and I used the other end of the couch to fuck. We were missionary at first and then he had me turn around. The lover’s couch is such an awesome piece of furniture, allowing for so many positions and theirs was so comfy. Miguel came real good fucking me from behind while they moved over to the big couch. His cum mixed with mine was running down my leg when we finished. I ran to the bathroom to get cleaned up and I could still hear them fucking out there. They finished a few minutes later and everyone was halfway dressed by the time I returned. It was a hot night.

This week isn’t even over yet! I am looking forward to a very sexy 2012!

Sexy Entertainment

Miguel and I went out Monday night. So we actually met this couple a few months ago, when the band he is in played at a local club. The band was actually really good and we enjoyed her company (and his between sets). That was a get-to-know you meeting. Miguel found their ad on Craig’s List Monday night, looking for some naughty exhibitionism, so we answered.

We arrived at their place a little after 9. They are a very laid back couple. They showed us their dungeon, that was kind of tore down on account of being the holidays. They had family staying over and didn’t quite know how to explain the hooks from the ceiling, so we couldn’t actually play there. They had a nice collection of kinky whips and crops, we didn’t get to play with any of it though. We talked mostly and from there you can guess that the conversation led to my website and a little show and tell about my bag of toys. We didn’t end up using any of it. They really wanted someone to watch….and watch we did.

They started making out in the chair they were sharing and he stood up so she could suck his cock. She got him nice and hard and seemed to really enjoy her work. There is nothing like watching two people who love each other…..I really enjoyed the show. When Miguel stood in front of me I knew it was my turn so I sucked him good. He was wearing his C-Sling which made his cock stick out even more giving me easy access. I love the taste of him. I know just how to suck him to full hardness. I deep throating his cock and gagged a bit, until he stopped me so he could take his clothes off.

We moved to the bedroom for some parallel play. Miguel had me lay back and buried his face in my pussy. He licked my clit and finger fucked my g-spot. I cum every time he does this. Right next to us, she was laying on her back with her man’s face buried in her muff.¬† Miguel sat up and rubbed his cock my wet slit. Then he buried his cock balls deep into me. Next to us they started fucking as well. I closed my eyes to concentrate on the feeling of his cock sliding in and out, the sexy scene of this couple fucking right next to us. When I opened my eyes the couple next to us was doing it doggy style. She was such a petite girl, he was pushing her hips down to meet his thrusts. It was so sexy to watch him fuck her. Miguel had me flip around too so he could fuck me from behind. It was then that I noticed the mirrors on the headboard and the wall. The mirrors gave a great view of the couple next to us, and I could watch Miguel’s face as he fucked me and smacked my ass.

Miguel had me get on my back again and he fucked me till he came. A few minutes later the guy pulled out and moved up the bedside to cum on her face. It was so fucking hot. He was talking some sexy shit to her as his cum covered her face and she loved it. What a hot couple! I am wet right now just thinking about it. This couple had been together 11 years and knew how to please each other and put on a hot show.

I had a great time with that couple. It has been a while since we had a soft swap go so fucking well. There was no awkwardness, it was not a competition, just two couples fucking in the same room. It was live porn, minus the silicone and freaky angles. I wanna do it again….soon!