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Happy New Year!



I had a really great time last night out at the club. I was delighted to spend the first few minutes of 2013 kissing the love and my life in a room full of sexy people. We almost stayed in this year for new years eve, I am glad we decided to go out. This past year has been full of changes for us. It was great to get out and celebrate that 2012 is finally over. I am excited about the changes to come.

Something great already happened this year. I woke up today to discover that Red Region had named my site as one of the sexiest of 2012! There are 40 blogs on this list, and all of them are worth a read. Check them out and discover some new sexy sites this year. Thank you Red Region! This list rocks and I feel very privileged to be part of it.


I really, really appreciate it when people say they read my blog. It means my voice has an audience. I know the internet is full of people saying things, especially things about sex. I was thinking about what being sex blogger means. I think being a sex blogger has made me acutely more aware of my sexuality and for that I am so grateful. I am also really grateful to live in world with so many sexy bloggers.

I am starting my full time nights schedule this week at my new job. It has been years since I worked nights. My main concern is sleep. Wish me luck as I attempt this transition while the kids are out of school. I am sure they will allow me to sleep and not wake me up to break up stupid sibling rivalries. I am feeling strangely optimistic about the year to come. I know history has proved me wrong about this time and again but fuck it! I am feeling good and I am going ride this feeling out. New job, healthy kids, sexy man laying next to me. Life is good!

Happy New Year to all of you!

Top Sex Blogger 2012


Thank you so much! I am #48 on the list of the Top Sex Bloggers of 2012!

Thanks to everyone who voted! I am floored that I made the list among such sexy sex bloggers. Thanks to all my stalkers here, on facebook, twitter and in the flesh. Thanks to Rori of betweenmysheets who puts this awesome list together every year. Thanks especially to you for taking the time to read this blog. (I still can’t believe there are more then two of you!)

Please check out the other awesome bloggers who made the list.


1. Molly from Molly’s Daily Kiss @mollysdailykiss
2. EA from Easily Aroused @EasilyAroused
3. Hyacinth Jones from A Dissolute Life Means…
4. Cheeky Minx from Love Hate Sex Cake @LoveHateSexCake
5. Amy from Anal Amy @AnalAmy
6. My Trousers Rolled from My Trousers Rolled @rolledtrousers
7. Sexual Life of a Wife from Sexual Life of a Wife
8. Dark Gracie from Gracie’s Playground @darkgracie
9. diirrty from d i i r r t y
10. nilla from Vanillamom’s Blog @swirlednilla
11. Suggestive Tongue from Suggestive Tongue @Suggestive
12. Sunny Megatron from Sunny Megatron @SunnyMegatron
13. Aisha from Being Aisha
14. Dev from Delving to Deviance
15. Amie Wee from Crevice Canyon @crevicecanyon
16. Remittance Girl from Remittance Girl @remittancegirl
17. Lady Dragonfly from Lady Dragonfly @miladydragonfly
18. paltego from Femdom Resource
19. Bella Blush from Clean, Moral, Polite
20. Girl on the Net from Girl on the Net @girlonthenet
21. Clarisse Thorn from Clarisse Thorn @clarissethorn
22. Kyle Mew from Kyle Mew @kylemmew
23. Violet+Rye from Uncommon Appetites @UCAppetites
24. Mina and Sylvanus from At Longing’s End @mydesire and @sylvanus
25. Athol Kay from Married Man Sex Life
26. Heather and Nikki from Vagina Antics @Heather_Cole1 and @Nikki_Blue1
27. Ferns from Domme Chronicles @Ferns__
28. Conina from Exploring Surrender
29. Kaya from Under His Hand
30. Joan Price from Better Than I Ever Expected @joanprice
31. Dumb Domme from Dumb Domme @DumbDomme
32. Sadie from That’s What Sadie Said
33. Nikki from Nikki True @Thenikkitrue
34. Lucas Brooks from Top To Bottom @Top2Bottom
35. HH and Lo from My Sex Life with Lola
36. Harper Elliot from (It Girl. Rag Doll) @HarperEliot
37. Charlie Glickman from Charlie Glickman @charlieglickman
38. Lady Cheeky from Smut for Smarties @Lady_Cheeky
39. TemptingSweets999 from Tempting Sweets: Story Heat
40. Monocle, Redbud, and Ximena from The Erotic Writer @_Monocle_ and @_Ximena_Writes_
41. Happy BDSM from Happy BDSM
42. Charlie Nox from Charlie Nox @charlienox
43. Theo Black from Theo Black
44. Chrystal Bougon from Bliss Radio
45. Rockin from Light Switch @RockinwithaCock
46. Dr. Marty Klein from Sexual Intelligence @drmartyklein
47. Miranda an Aaron from The Swinger’s Attic
48. Karen from Kissing Blue Karen @kissinbluekaren
49. Axe from Unspeakable Axe @unspeakableaxe
50. Peroxide from Submissive in Seattle @Peroxide__
51. Rachel Rabbit White from Rachel Rabbit White @rabbitwhite
52. Jill McDevitt from A Day in the Life of a Sexologist
53. LS&M from Love, Sex & Marriage
54. Hubman from Hubman’s Hangout @hubman38
55. Coyote’s Kitten from Kitten’s Paw Prints in Slavery @coyoteskitten
56. Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross from Dodson and Ross @dodsonandross
57. Daisy Danger from The True Life Sex Adventures of Daisy Danger @daisydanger
58. Oatmeal Girl from Submission & Metaphor @oatmeal_girl
59. Fatal from You Linger Like a Haunting Refrain
60. Ruby Ryer from Pegging Paradise @Ruby_Ryder
61. Kyle Jones from Butchtastic
62. Anakin and padme from Journey to the Darkside @AnakinDarth and @padmeamidala
63. Lady Pandorah from Lady Panorah’s Sanctuary @ladypandorah
64. Marie Rebelle from Rebel’s Notes @rebelsnotes
65 Thumper from Denying Thumber @thumperMN
66. Jade from Pieces of Jade @piecesofjade
67. Jason Stotts from Erosophia @jstotts
68. BD Swain from Leaning How To Tell You @redswain
69. Bre from Owned, Collared, Loved
70. Dangerous Lilly from This Could Be Dangerous @dangerouslilly
71. Modesty Ablaze from Modesty Ablaze @ablazingmodesty
72. Suzanne from All Mine
73. Kitty from My Secret Life
74. Domina Victoria Rage from Domina Victoria Rage @VictoriaRage
75. Sin from Finding My Submission
76. Maggie Mayhem from Miss Maggie Mahem @msmaggiemayhem
77. Artemisia Absinthium from Absinth Cocktail @ArtiAbsinthium
78. N. Likes from My Dissolute Life @nlikes
79. TheOthers1 from Undue Creativity
80. Roxy from Uncommon Curiosity @sroxy
81. Mollena from The Perverted Negress @Mollena
82. Jerome from Let’s Talk About Sex
83. Liza from Always Each Other @lizawrites
84. Figleaf from Real Adult Sex @talkingfigleaf
85. Red Vinyl Kitty from The Sub Mission @The_Sub_Mission
86. Omega and Mouse from The Power Exchange @talesofmouse
87. Innocent Loverboy from Innocent Loverboy @innocentlb
88. Shelby Cross from Shelby Cross, Writer
89. Blacksilk from Being Blacksilk @BlacksilkBlog
90. Kaleigh Trace from Fucking Facts @TheFuckingFacts
91. Romantic Dominant from A Faded Romantic’s Notebook
92. BiLikesSciFi from A Tale of Bi and Bi
93. Curvaceous Dee from Curvaceous Dee @curvaceousdee
94. Evoe Thorne from My Whole Sex Life @WholeSexLife
95. Ponyboy from Marriage in the Bedroom @Ponyboy0000
96. Jack and Jill from Frisky in the 916 @jackandjillcpl and @jillandjackcpl
97. The Gentle Nibbles Writing Team from Gentle Nibbles @gentlenibbles
98. Kitty from The Submissive Wife
99. Kat from She Makes the Rules

100. YOU! As always, I want to leave a place on this list for ALL the awesome sex bloggers out there! So please leave a comment on Between My Sheets with your name/URL to tell us about your sexy blog!

I highlighted some of my favorites on the list. I wanted to also to contribute some blogs that didn’t make the list for whatever reason, but I would personally recommend.


Rebecca Ammon


Kira’s Slavery

Two of these are pretty new blog sites and didn’t make the list because there was a “age” qualifier. Please go and discover new blogs, comment and let these people know you were there. A lot of work goes in to making an entertaining/aesthetically pleasing place on the web. I don’t know how everyone else does it, but I think about my site on a daily basis. I care about what I put out there and I care about how it is received. My blog is a piece of me, for good or bad. It is really an honor that it was recognized for sexy. Thanks!

e[lust] #39


Photo courtesy of Ava Grace

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #40? Start with the newly updated rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ Top 3 ~

Never Pinch a Sadist: 50 Shades of PlaidIf you don’t know kink, don’t feel pressured into it. If you wonder what it is about, join Fetlife and find local event to teach you about it.

Collars & closure & owning myselfthere is triumph in realizing that your paths are diverging, repacking your shit, and moving on with dignity and respect.

The QuarryWe agreed to meet up on the weekend and go out to the quarry. It was an old, flooded quarry. I didn’t know it, but the queers had taken it over.

~ Featured Post (Picked by Lilly) ~

The Pussy Pride Project

~ e[lust] Editress ~

“I can’t orgasm without a vibrator” So What?Embrace it. Bring it in to your partnered sex life. Be happy that you can achieve orgasm whatever way that works for you.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

A Guest for Dinner
A Beautiful Need
A Purring Machine
A Hard Man is Good to Find
Chlorine Kisses
In a different world
I Crave You!
Lolita Twenty-Twelve, Part Four
Mojo Back
My 69th Orgasm
Owned Part 4
Sensual room service
Tease Me
The Space Between
The Text
The Wicked Wench of Wupert Stweet
The Desk of Power
Use Me
What I’m thinking about when I’m…
When Frederick Met Camille

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Living with an Alpha Sub
Make Her Cum
Swinging and safe sex
Talking with the Lights Off
The Promiscuous Bisexual
Why Do I Have More Respect For Men Than MRAs?
What not to do for anal sex
Wants, Needs & Poly
Wifi Sex?

Kink & Fetish

A Boot Scene
Consent as Torture
Mores and Behavior
Pursuit of Squirting
Playing With Lightning
Submissive men: A celebration of beauty
strapping on…my first time
Submission for a Femdom Facesitting Film
rethinking warmup

2012 Best Sex Blogger Nominations

2012 Best Sex Blogger Nominations are open at Between My Sheets. This is a list I would ♥love♥ to see my name on again. If you enjoy reading my blog, please nominate KissinBluekaren to be on this list! Of course I encourage you to vote for your favorites. Rori, of Between My Sheets, will pick the top 100 based on the nominations. There are some consistently sexy blogs that deserve to be on this list, you can nominate as many as you wish. This year is the 5th year of the Top sex Bloggers list so Rori is giving away 5 different sex toys this year. A comment with a nomination gets you a chance to win!

Here are my top picks for 2012 (in no particular order):

  • http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/ This blog is consistently sexy. They have been in a TPE relationship for a long time and have been blogging also for a long time. She writes with such honesty, and almost daily, about her life with her master Anakin. There are lots of sexy pics. Padme is always happy to hear from her readers.
  • http://mollysdailykiss.com/ If case you don’t know about one of the hottest blogs in the UK, please check this blog out! She has a huge following and for good reason. She writes smart about sex and her life as a collared submissive. Molly is so much more than a submissive though check out the blog and you’ll see what I mean.
  • http://www.redregioninferno.com/ This blog is written by a male artist in a swinging relationship. He doesn’t write any sort of theme but his writing is good and entertaining. He is smart and sexy and talented. All this bleeds into his blog for an entertaining spot on the web.
  • http://rebeccaammon.com/ My friend Rebecca is also a swinger in the Tampa Bay area. She writes often on this blog giving advice about the lifestyle. Rebecca is sexy as hell and has a few side projects (the penis parade and the lady bits parade). Her site is entertaining, relevant, and thought provoking.
  • http://www.swingersattic.com/ I found this site right after we started swinging and it has a wealth of information for newbies. Most of it is through Q & A with both the male and female answering reader questions. They don’t claim to know everything but they handle topics with honesty and experience of a couple that has been swinging for years.

I didn’t include any of my favorite sex toy reviewers on this list because reviewing sex toys doesn’t necessarily make you a “sex blogger” automatically. Although some of them do write about the adult industry and very smartly. Some of the reviewers never bear anything on the web except their opinions of a product. Of course, this is a completely different style of entertainment that I dabble in sometimes. Some reviewers do it with more style than others. I would have a whole different list if I included sex toy reviewers.

There are very few perks for revealing my sex life on the web. The few comments I receive and being on this list would be thank you enough to continue for another sexy year! I hope you will go and nominate KissinBlueKaren for this Best Sex Bloggers 2012 list. Click here to put in your nomination and get the chance to win one of 5 sex toys courtesy of Between My Sheets.

My Glamorous Life

Eyz Wide Shut

Hey Lovelies! I got a busy day today. We are headed to a fetish club tonight but before all that fun happens I need to get my nails done. I hate trying to find something to wear to these events. I have to confess I have put on a few pounds recently. I am not feeling very sexy. Fetish gear is “required” for this event so that kinda sux.

(the next day)

I totally got interrupted trying to post this. We ended up not going to the fetish party, we went to Eyz Wide Shut instead. I wore this…






I friggin love this corset dress, although it is a bit hard to sit down in it, lol! We had a great time last night, but we didn’t stay long. We passed out a few cards, but we didn’t hook-up with anyone. We probably could have but we didn’t get much sleep last week and we both were tired pretty early. It sucks trying to catch up on sleep on the weekends, it cuts in to our party time.

I have a ton of reviews to do now. I have things from FunWares, Babeland, Eden Fantasys, Cleis Press, Erotic Toy Town and Big Teaze Toys…just waiting for me to review. I would be a bit more on top of these except, now I am working full-time. Not that I am complaining! I love my new job. I know that sounds weird, but I actually look forward to going to work everyday. I am a bit hesitant to give more details about what I do. I doubt any employer would be cool with me writing about my sexual exploits on the web.

I also love my hobby. I am so elated when I have packages come in. I actually have a little routine when I get new toys. I have a little staging area for toys I need to play with. It is great when those toys include Miguel’s help. The book reviews take a bit more time. I want to give each item a full review. I am not the type of person that will review something I haven’t actually read fully, or a toy I didn’t use. I got a toy back in December called a Fleshwrap, it is a toy meant to go around the scrotum and base of the cock. The thing is that Miguel’s testicles don’t dangle. He hates when I talk about this, but he has great tone on his nuts. They stay really close to his body. As a result he couldn’t manipulate this toy on his person. I wrote the company and admitted we couldn’t use it. I didn’t feel right trying to review something when we didn’t even play with. I know some other reviewers reviewed this using pics of it on dildos and such, but I didn’t want to go that route. I am not saying they were wrong, just that I didn’t want to do it.

Speaking of other reviewers….I hope you have had a chance to check out my blogroll. I love being a part of this community of reviewers on the web. I have felt snubbed by some of them. Some don’t agree with my reviews, or maybe it is the fact that I write smut about my sex life. We all have our opinion, I choose not to hate on somethings. I try to imagine what it would be like not reviewing sex toys. Am I some sort of amateur since I can still see the good in some toys that other people don’t like? I prefer to believe I am more crafty, and less of a sex toy snob than some of my peers. I have hated on some toys, but I think my reviews are more positive than some. That being said, I still read most of their reviews. Most of them have valid points, I just didn’t see it that way. Maybe I will get there some day, too. The truth is when I buy a sex toy, I want to hear the good and the bad. Still I gotta admit, it is pretty cool to review sex toys. I feel privileged to be part of the community of reviewers.

I am figuring out that I need to be more picky about certain companies to work with. One company I was working with had a $350 minimum for pay out for commission…ridiculous! Terrible when it was right there in the fine print. Sucky that I will never see the commission that I earned from that company. My time is so fucking limited right now, I need to be careful to only review for companies that have a number I can aspire to reach. In case you didn’t know it, I do make some commission when you click the links on my site and buy something from those companies. It is a small amount, but every little bit helps. Right now I only advertise for companies I believe in. I trust them to send you quality items, at good prices. All of them offer discreet shipping and billing.

OMG! I almost forgot to mention that I am soon to have some of my stories published. This is not really as big of a deal as I am making it out to be in my head, but…. Eden Lit is publishing a book and a story of mine is going to be in it! I am not sure which one, or if it is more than one even. I am so excited to be a part of it. Even though I get no royalties I hope the book is a big success! I will give you more details when I get them. I need to write blurb about myself “two or three sentences, summing up your whole life” for the About the Authors section…..no pressure there! What the heck and I am going to say?

Oh geez! I ramble on and on when I should be talking about toys. I guess I need to get back to my reviews. I just wanted to blog a little about my glamorous life as a sex toy reviewer/nurse/swinger/soon-to-be-published author.

Completely Surprised

I am way elated to even be noticed. In my mind I have about 3 regular readers….and I am one of them. Red Region Inferno included KissinBlueKaren on a  list of 45 of the sexiest blogs he has found on the web this year. Some of them are oldies but goodies, some are new to his list. He also gives a short blurb about why he likes the site. His list is very sexy and full of thought provoking blogs that he has listed in alphabetical order. I am completely surprised I made the list. I am going to have fun checking out his links, since he writes like such a cool cat I imagine his tastes will be way entertaining.