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Pure Wand

I have been wanting a Pure Wand for a long time. My love for clitoral vibrations has kept me away from this toy. I was thinking maybe I wouldn’t love it. I was wrong. For any girl with a g-spot, I recommend the Pure Wand.

Materials: Stainless Steel

Dimensions: 8″ x 1.5″ (1″ on the smaller end)

Weighing in just over 1.5lbs, the the Pure Wand was originally intended for p-spot play. I am sure this toy has lots to offer the p-spot. The different sized ends means you can use this toy for a variety of play: thrusting, p-spot, and g-spot. I was skeptical on how great it would actually feel for me. This heavy chunk of metal has a bit of learning curve. I was patient while testing it. I tried a few different positions and then OMG! Pure Wand hits my g-spot like no other toy can.

(Click on any picture to see it larger.)

The Pure Wand is just genius. I doubt any toy on the market can rival what this toy does for my g-spot. The Pure Wand is not something I reach for to quickly get me off, it is a toy I use when I want a drawn out session of sensation. I prefer the smaller end for g-spot thrusting, it actually mimics what Miguel can do with hands. With the Pure Wand I can control the tempo, strength, size of the pressure applied to my g-spot. For a larger thrusting sensation I love the larger end and the way it feels on my vaginal entrance. Also, the material of this toy is great for temperature play. Even at room temperature the Pure Wand feels cool. Put it in hot or cold water for extra sensation. When I combine this toy with a clitoral toy it is awkward. The weight alone is a bit awkward, but oh so worth it! I squirted the first time I used it, and I never squirt so that should give some sort of idea of how amazing this toy is. The combination of correct g-spot pleasure and clitoral stimulation (from any clitoral toy) is my idea of heaven.

The Pure Wand is a large heavy toy. The curve is actually a full 10″. The steel is smooth and seamless, except for a small spot in the middle on the inner side of the curve where the name njoy is embossed. It is easy to clean with soap and water, boiled, cleaned with a 10% bleach solution, or placed in the dishwasher. Stainless Steel is compatible with just about any lubricant. The Pure Wand came packaged in a really nice black box with a white paper sleeve on it. The outside is non-descriptive and discreet with only the word njoy on it written in silver. Inside the box, I found a small booklet about njoy products and care and maintenance of my Pure Wand. The Pure Wand is a toy designed to last a very long time.

I fretted for a long time over the price of this toy. It retails at over $100. Could a toy with no motor really be worth that much? I poured over the reviews of this toy, looking for the bad and the good. I am so glad I went ahead with purchasing this toy for myself. It provides a sensation I have not experienced with any other toy. I have not regretted purchasing the Pure Wand for myself, not one little bit.

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Supersex Toner Balls


There are plenty of options for kegel balls. Lovehoney sent me the Tracey Cox Supersex Toner Balls this month for review. I use kegel balls to exercise my pelvic floor muscles. This simple exercise of contracting and releasing the muscle sounds easy and should be part of my routine. I get bored and I have to admit that I usually forget about it. Kegel balls are a great way to remind me to contract those muscles and make “working them out” a bit more interesting.

After having four children naturally it is sort of assumed that my muscles need toning more than a woman who has never had a child. Every woman can benefit from kegel exercise, no matter if she has had children or not. I use kegels everyday to prevent urine from leaking out without my consent (like when I sneeze). Stronger pelvic floor muscles means more bladder control. The pelvic muscles also contract during orgasm and can be used during sex for more pleasure. Having stronger muscles can enhance your sexual experience and help deliver more a powerful orgasm.

Materials: Silicone and Plastic

Dimensions: 8″ x 1.5″, each ball is 2″ x 1.5″

I prefer silicone and or plastic to metal and glass. Kegel balls should be easy to use and easy to clean. I actually own quite a few varieties of kegel balls. These Tracey Cox Supersex Toner Balls are good for beginners to advanced users. Ideally you will want to start with big, lighter balls and work your way up to heavy smaller balls. 1

These kegel balls weigh in at 76 grams. They feel heavier than the Fun Factory Smartballs, but it is really hard to tell. 2 They are 1 gram heavier then the LELO Luna bead blue colored balls, which are the heavier of the variety that LELO carries.

The nice thing about these balls is that they come ready to go with a 4″ pull string. I do not want to think about assembling my kegel balls. The pull string has a bit of stretch to it, but it is thick enough that I am not worried about it breaking anytime soon. Also, the end of the string is rounded (so unlike some other kegel balls I have owned), the string sits comfortably without poking me. The silicone on these balls has a bit of drag to it, so you might need some water based lubrication for insertion. The plastic on these balls is found in a circular pattern on both of the balls. If you click the picture above you can see the image bigger and check out the seam connecting the plastic and the silicone. There is a small seam, which may prove troublesome to clean down the road. I haven’t had a problem cleaning these so far since there is no gap as of yet. The balls are submerge-able and waterproof. Boiling or bleaching them might be a good option for keeping them absolutely germ free. I use soap and water or a sex toy cleaner, but I am admittedly less anal about such things. 3

The balls are firm without any give. Within the balls are smaller balls that roll around with movement and create a mild vibration. The vibrations are audible when I shake them, but cannot be heard at all when they are inserted. The balls are connected with silicone and can be bent at a right angle. I found them comfortable when inserted.

To be honest I can barely feel the vibrations as I move about with the Supersex Toner Balls inserted. I doubt I will ever be the type of gal that has an orgasm using kegel balls. I can’t really feel them vibrating at all as I move. I am just reminded to tighten up my pc muscles more than normal. I wear them for about 20-30 minutes at a time normally, but they can be worn for longer. The Supersex Toner balls can be worn for as long as you feel comfortable wearing them.

I loved the fact that these balls come with a storage pouch. The pouch is white with a white drawstring. I still want to wash them before and after use, but it is nice to have a discreet way store them.

The packaging for the Tracey Cox Supersex Toner Balls was not too discreet, but it was pretty informative. The plastic casing for the balls inside the very informative box was a nice touch.











The only bad news about these kegel balls might be the size for some. I don’t find them uncomfortable at all, but some women who have never had children might find the size a bit much. The balls bend and I had no probably fitting them at all. Just a thought before you buy. I liked the weight of these and found they gave my kegels a good workout. Keeping the size in mind I would have no problem recommending them.

The Tracey Cox Supersex Toner Balls are available at Lovehoney.

 Free copy of Tracey's fabulous book Superhotsex worth $24.99 when you buy two selected Tracey products


I received this product from Lovehoney free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

  1. Or like me you can stop at lighter, bigger and just use them occasionally.
  2. Since Fun Factory doesn’t actually post the weight of them anywhere, who knows!
  3. The vagina is the only self-cleaning orifice on the human body.


cleis press

Erotic Tales of Immortal Desire edited by D.L. King the same mastermind that gave us Carnal Machines (a book I absolutely loved!). This book includes short stories by Aurelia T. Evans, Kaysee Renee Robichaud, Elizabeth Brooks, Michael M. Jones, Kannan Feng, V. K. Foxe, Evan Mora, Sasha Bukova, Jay Lawrence, Anya Richards, Nan Andrews, NJ Streitberger, Angela Caperton, J. S. Wayne, Mina Murray, Giselle Renarde, Robin Tiergarten, Cynthia Rayne, Jean Roberta, Elizabeth Thorne and Kate Dominic. I am not familiar with all of these authors but I trust D.L. King to deliver quality erotica. I was really excited to review this book.

From the back:

She’s beautiful. She’s enchanting. She’s mysterious and unfathomable. She’s your fondest dream and your worst nightmare. She’s sweet and sublimely submissive. She’s dark and fully in charge. She’s flirty yet mysterious. She promises safety in her arms but there’s danger in her eyes. One look, one scent, one taste, one sigh and you’re rock hard or dripping wet. She’s sex incarnate. Succubi are sexual vampires, women who steal the life force from their victims — but what a way to go! Some say succubi visit their victims in dreams; others say they seduce them in the flesh. Whether your succubus is a shape-shifter, has permanent bat wings, or wears a miniskirt; whether her victims are taken unawares, follow her with glee, or scream bloody murder as they come, these stories are hot — as hell.

I am really into the supernatural. It seems so easy for this topic of a Seductress to be a successful collection of erotic stories. Honestly though not all the stories really were all that. The book started on such a high note with the first story really drawing the reader in. The next story sort of fell flat and left me wondering if the book was going to be worth my time. I am happy to report that the book did have a few excellent stories. By the end of the book I was pleased with the collection, I would have left some stories out, but the majority of them were worth the read.

Right off the bat this book was really hot. The first story, Harvest by Aurelia T. Evans, was a steamy hot story of a succubus that got me all kinds of hot an bothered. The seductress in this story is dominating and has no mercy as she takes control of her summoner. Succubus, Inc. by Elizabeth Brooks was another delicious story that ignited my imagination about how a succubus could fit into this modern world. What devices could a succubus use to get more people to serve their needs? The author nailed this story with a never-ending list of possibilities in a world where sex can be bought and sold.

Minions Have Needs Too by Anya Richards told the story of a succubus sent down to earth to get energy for her master. She then has to release her energy in the form of story telling to her master. This is a very erotic short story with lots of snippets of sex-full scenes. The lesson in this story is to never forget to tend to those who serve you. The Girl on the Egyptian Escalator by NJ Streitberger was a dirty tale of about viscous cycle. The Egyptian Goddess Sekhmet has no trouble finding prey in this day and age. Textual by Robin Tiergarten was another good story about how easy it would be for a crafted succubus to in-debt a servant with a sexy picture and the promise of sex.


In the Service of Hell by Michael M. Jones disturbed me on so many levels I can barely contain myself. In this story the succubus is sent down to release a shy lesbian from denying herself by living a life of heterosexuality. The idea that perhaps a true lesbian might need help finding a potential lover from a demon, or that only hell would be able to help her (since heaven doesn’t care) is troublesome to me. Phone Hex was another story of succubus trying to find a foothold in this modern age, but unlike Succubus, Inc. it fell a bit flat on the delivery of steamy seducing.

One story I was really on the fence about is Soaring by Kate Dominic. This story takes place in a war torn country and the succubus is in the guise of being a photo journalist of some sort in the company of soldiers. This story may fall too close to home for those of us that have served or have loved ones still serving. The soldiers are obviously American as their accents betray. The story has some sexy aspects but the whole idea to me was a bit of a turn off.

The book was able to capture my imagination and did, at the very least, inspire some new fantasies. It is probably worth a read for anyone who finds succubus a sexy subject. The majority of the book was very well put together. (With the exception of the few I mentioned that I really wish I would have skipped over.) The book Seductress can be purchased here and here.

I received this product from Cleis Press free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Sex Toy Society ~Edition 22

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Very Private School Girl Costume Review


Happy Halloween!

How about a costume review to get us in the mood for tricks-n-treats!

I picked the Cheap Thrills Very Private School Girl costume thinking it would be a nice addition to my costumes to wear out to themed party. Being a swinger means I don’t have to wait till Halloween to wear a costume. This costume is much better suited for bedroom/private play. It is very revealing but also very comfortable.

Materials: 85% Nylon, 15% Spandex

Available in 3 Sizes: Small/Medium, Large/Extra-Large, Queen

Care Instructions: Machine wash cold, lie flat to dry


The front of the dress opens all the way down with a zipper. The picture of the costume makes it look like the zipper is silver with a black background, but the one I received had a white on white zipper. The dress comes in two pieces: the dress and the tie. The tie is really flimsy and try as I might I couldn’t really get it to tie right for me. Who cares thou, really? It is a little extra decoration, no one will notice the stupid tie when you put this on. The tie is the same material as the dress. The material doesn’t really wrinkle but it does curl, as shown in the tie here…

The collar connects in the front with a clasp. I found embarrassingly difficulty trying to work this clasp using a mirror. I know I could have made Miguel help me, but having him help me put it on takes some of the allure away from the outfit. Once I got that clasp done it was easy to zipper up the dress and slide the elastic tie over my head.

The material of this dress is pretty sheer. I could clearly see my nipples through the dress. I think this is part of the allure of this sexy piece, but it makes it unfit for public consumption. The dress is also very short. I know at 5″8″ I am tall, but really my legs give me most of my height. This dress will most likely show off your derrière, no matter how high you stand. It is made to be sexy and showing ass is sexy.

I am not made like the a playboy bunny, but this dress fit me pretty well. 1

I have to say I liked the way this dress fit. If I wanted I could have pulled the dress down over most of my ass, because the material is so stretchy. It rides up right away, so I just let it be. When I pull it down it doesn’t sit right on my hips. It looks like this…

I doubt I will ever wear this out, but who knows? Miguel likes it enough that I will probably just wear it for him.

I should mention that this same style comes in black with red trim. If you are really worried about nipples showing through, you might want to try that color scheme instead. I thought the white looked good with the pink, the black and red is a bit naughtier looking.

The packaging for this dress was a cardboard box. It shows the model wearing it on both sides, so it is not very discreet. But it is actually pretty good for storage.

The Very Private School Girl costume is available at SheVibe. Last I checked, it was around $35. I think that is a good deal for something so cute.


I received this product from SheVibe free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

  1. Please ignore the mess in these pictures, I sent these pics to Miguel from my phone and didn’t take any for the review. Then at the last moment I thought I should include how this looks on a real person.

Lending a Hand


Last weekend Miguel and I went out to a swinger gathering. As usual, when we hit this type of venue, Miguel had several couples lined up that we were going to meet in person. Some of them for the first time after chatting online for months. The turn out at the venue wasn’t that impressive. We were one of the first couples to arrive and one of the last to leave. At the last moment a couple invited us back to their hotel for some after party fun. We were more than happy to oblige.

We got the hotel and they offered us drinks. It seems they were prepared for fun. The room was pretty nice with a separate sitting room and a king sized bed in the bedroom. Miguel found a great way to break the ice and whipped out the blindfold. We blindfolded her and I helped her out of her clothes. I led her over to the bed and had her lie back. I took off my corset top and kissed her. I tweaked her nipples and then her husband handed me some toys to play on her with. A bullet for her clit and a slim vibrator for her pussy. I rubbed the bullet all over her clit and slowly eased the vibrator into her. I am usually more oral, but this couple was a soft swap. I didn’t want to ruin everything by going too far. We hadn’t discussed if she was interested in playing with me, just that they weren’t interested in a full swap. I looked for cues that she was enjoying herself. She was very wet but almost silent as I played. Her man took pictures of the action. Miguel got up on the bed by her head and held her arms while I worked on getting her off. After a while I grabbed her hand so she could control the amount of pressure of the bullet and I handed the vibrator to her man. I took off my skirt and panties and got my own vibrators out. I stretched out next to her to work on getting myself off while her man and Miguel watched. We fucked like animals after that. It was a great night.


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E.V.A. Massager



E.V.A. “Extreme Vibrating Action” Massager was sent to me this month from California Exotics. I wanted to love this toy. I don’t think the name suits it very well. The vibrations that this toy delivers are buzzy at best. The handle is long enough for thrusting, it’s made of body-safe silicone, it is waterproof…but the flexible shaft just didn’t pleasure me the way it was meant to. This vibe might work for someone who wants buzzy vibes on their g-spot without firm pressure. I love buzzy vibes for g-spot, but firm pressure is a must for me.

Materials: Silicone and ABS Plastic

Dimensions: 7.25″ x 1.25″, 6.25″ insertable

There is so much to love about the length of this vibe. I found thrusting this vibe was easy enough. I was really frustrated with the shaft/tip that didn’t give enough pressure. It has a tapered head which makes it easy to insert. The silicone is smooth without a lot of drag. I am so disappointed about the flexible shaft I could cry. The shape of the product was perfect for me but the shaft is so flexible I just couldn’t get enough pressure to satisfy my g-spot.

The shaft has no texture that I could feel. It is smooth and has a soft silicone tip angled for g-spot (gah! if only). The E.V.A. has a two button interface with a dedicated on/off switch. The button on the top is the on/off button, it looks sort of like this Φ. The bottom button controls the 7 functions, it looks like this ⓦ. The first three settings are low, medium, and high. The rest of the settings are pulsations, waves and escalations. The vibrations are weak. Surface buzzy not at all deep and rumbly. The toy is pretty quiet, almost silent even at the highest setting. I could barely hear it over the television…The vibe runs on 2 AAA batteries. The batteries insert on the bottom. The removable cap is the same, difficult to open twist-lock type, that is found on other Cal Exotics toys. It is water-tight but really hard to close.

Being waterproof makes this toy easy to clean. I use soap and water or a sex toy cleaner. Honestly, I can barely go on with this review. The toy had a lot of promise but being so flexible was a huge disappointment. That coupled with the fact that vibrations are just buzzy made this useless for clitoral stimulation. I wouldn’t recommend this toy for even clitoral stimulation. Unless, of course, surface buzzy vibrations really do it for you. Actually in that case there are plenty of less expensive options.

Review Summary
1 being weak, 5 being earth shattering.
The volume of the toy on it’s highest setting.
Material Safety.
Value of toy for the price.

I received this product from California Exotics free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Step Sisters ~Book Review

cleis press


Step Sisters is an intricate web of betrayal. From the looks of this book and the description, I thought that the sisters grew up together. That is not the case. Two grown women become sisters by marriage. Elizabeth is the brain with the bad boy fiancé. Rachel is the stunning beauty with the acting talent. A ~not so shocking~ betrayal makes them enemies at the beginning.

Even though the sisters are not even on speaking terms their lives run parallel as they gain fame: one with her knack for telling the truth, one for ability to turn heads. The sisters are bound together by parental ties, sibling neutrality, a bad boy lover, old flames, and work contacts. Elizabeth is hell-bent on getting revenge as a gossip columnist. Rachel is living the high life as a famed actress. The destiny of these two women come together time and again and the mud slinging stops when these two realize the are their only allies in a final act together.

I grabbed this fictional book to read thinking it would give me a long break from erotica. I was wrong, I read this entire book in one week. With life trying to distract me from it’s cliffhanger chapter endings. I should say I devoured the book because that is exactly what happened. Rupert James has this uncanny ability to make me love and hate his characters at the same time. I don’t really know who to root for in his stories, but I always end up wanting more when I am finished.

This book is fast paced and very well written. If you loved The Devil Wears Prada you will love this book. Rupert James knows how to tell a juicy story. The characters are flawed in the most believable ways. No matter which sister you side with, Rupert makes you love them both. This book was well worth the time investment for me. I couldn’t put it down.

Step Sisters was written by Rupert James and is published by Cleis Press. Step Sisters can be purchased here and here.

I received this book from Cleis Press free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.