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Eden Fantasys $25 Giveaway!

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in Blog Post, Contest, website, win | Posted on 19-01-2012

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Valentine’s Day is coming. I wanna give you all something…a chance to win a $25 giftcard from Eden Fantasys!

So tell me are you looking to buy for someone special…yourself? Want to add a little something to you play dates, or get naughty in the shower?

Eden Fantasys has a large selection of sex toys including: dildos, adult books, fetish gear, vibrators, anal toys and so much more! You get a free gift with every order. Right now you get your choice of an Eden Fantasys swag t-shirt, Eden toy and body wipes, an Eden Fantasys swag tote bag, a vibrating cock ring, or a Wet safe sex kit to choose from. Plus you can also get a free Xtreme pack g-spot bullet with any order over $60. AND you can get a free bottle of ON natural arousal gel with any purchase over $100. Shipping is fast and always discreet at Eden.

This is great time to buy at Eden Fantasys!

They also have a contest going on for OhMiBod….

Do you know about Eden points??? Eden Fantasys has a point system just for being active on their site….each point is worth a penny. The points add up fast! You can get points for things like setting up a profile, confirming your e-mail, liking a product, making a comment, or even rating a review…it is so easy to rack up points and you can cash in your points at any time to use toward a purchase. I used a bunch of points during the holidays to buy my Eden friends gifts they had on their wishlists…win for them and me!

Did I forget to mention the new bath & beauty products that Eden Fantasys is carrying now? Eden has a large selection of lotions, bath gear, massage oils, candles…. and the lingerie…oh lala! Everything a sex God or Goddess could want! They have just about everything you need to make this Valentine’s special for you! So what would you buy? I got my eye on all the new Leaf products, an Uma, or maybe I would save up for a Jopen Intensity! s. One of you is going to win $25 to spend there, leave me a comment and tell me what you are going to buy! Please tell me if this is for you, or for someone special. This contest is open world-wide and ends on 2/2. Good Luck!

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Ryder Silicone Plug

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in anal, Blog Post, recommended, Reviews, toys | Posted on 18-01-2012

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Tantus sent me this medium sized anal plug for review. I have never had an anal plug but I enjoy anal play quite a bit so I thought “why not?” I had no idea what I was missing! This little plug has added so much to my sex life.

Materials: Silicone

Dimensions: 4.5″ x 1.5″

This plug fits me so perfectly, I now get what all the fuss was about. We don’t do anal very often. More often than not, I need a bit of a warm up with a small toy for the main event. This plug seems large, but fits comfortably. A little water-based lube helps. Being pure silicone, it is only compatible with water-based lube. The rounded, slightly graduated shape helps this plug slide right in and stop right where it should. I didn’t have any problems with the Ryder slipping in or out during sex or wear.

Best of all, this plug is very comfortable. I felt like I could wear it all day. There are no seams on the insertion portion at all. The only marking on this plug is a small etching on the side of the base that says Tantus. The silicone is shiny and smooth. The Ryder is firm with a slight squishy feeling. The material is a bit tacky so you will want to store this away from dust and lint. Be sure to wash it before and after use. This toy could last a very long time with a bit of care. You can clean this toy easily by using a 10% bleach solution, boiling for 3-5 minutes, cleaning with a sex toy cleaner, or using antibacterial soap and water. Silicone is non-porous and completely body safe. It will not harbor germs like some other materials, so the Ryder is a totally shareable toy.

The Ryder is almost invisible when worn under clothes. The thin base fits very comfortably between the cheeks. I walked around with the Ryder in place for a while and it felt really naughty. It doesn’t give an overly-full feeling while it is inside, which makes it ideal for wear during sex. It does have a bit of weight at 0.5lbs. It felt really comfortable even when I sat down too hard or clenched my anal muscles. I imagine this will work for p-spot stimulation very nicely, but we haven’t tried it for that….yet!

Now that we know how much fun anal plugs can be, we are hoping to get and a Large Infinity or a Flirt from Tantus. I think the Ryder is a great toy for anal beginners, although some may need a little practice to get it in the first time. Remember to use a lot of lube and patience for first time anal play. Experienced players will find the Ryder to be a very nice fit and appreciate the safe and seamless design.

The packaging for the Ryder was very simple, just a clear plastic bag with a Tantus tag on it.

This is a great anal plug and it is on closeout right now at Tantus for $35.99.

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The value of toy for the price.

I received this product from Tantus free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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Pleasurists Edition 164

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in Blog Post, Pleasurists, recommended, Reviews | Posted on 17-01-2012

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Photo courtesy of Pixel*

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates.

Did you miss Pleasurists 163? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists 165? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday January 22nd @ 11:59pm Pacific.

*Pleasurists just started accepting photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here.

Want a shiny new toy? All you’ve got to do is enter.

Editor

Scarlet Lotus

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Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Sleeves, Rings, & etc.

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

Adult Books/Games

Adult DVDs & Porn

Lingerie

Miscellaneous

Pleasurists adult product review round-up

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Best Sex Writing 2012

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in Blog Post, books, recommended, Reviews | Posted on 17-01-2012

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This is the first time I have read a book from the series Best Sex Writing. This book is an in depth look at the news and stories in sex that shocked and awe’d us in 2011. It is full of personal stories of sex and in-depth looks at political news and scandals that rocked us in 2011. The compilations of stories collected by Rachel Kramer Bussel and Susie Bright shine a light on the state of sex in 2011, the good the bad and the ugly.

This book is a great read for those that deem themselves “sex nerds” as Rachel calls us. We want the goods on sex and not just the erotic stories. I enjoyed the spoon feeding of sex stories. This book is the best-of-the-best write up about sex and is a great book for anyone with who wants to put their finger on the pulse of Sex in America. Some of the stories were shocking, others made me sad. Everyone of them is a great conversation starter. I didn’t always agree with the viewpoints represented, but they were all excellent pieces. This is not an erotic read, unless of course you get off on how twisted and enlightening sex knowledge can be.

This book covers so many stories of sex in it’s 224 pages, I don’t even know where to start! From political scandals, to the Slutwalk, sex at age 66, to dating with an STI. This book includes eye opening statistics about the real average time before most men come from vaginal penetration, to why atheists have better sex. The authors may be familiar to you and they include some of the best writers on sex in the business. Everyone of these stories was interesting and thought provoking.

This book includes stories from:

  • Radley Balko of Huffington Post
  • Greta Christina blogger at AlterNet and Freeblogthoughts.com
  • Tracy Clark-Flory of Salon.com
  • Adrian Colesberry biomedical engineer and stand-up comic
  • Amber Dawn writer, filmmaker and performance artist
  • Camille Dodero of Village Voice
  • Tim Elhajj author and editor at Junk: a literary fix
  • Ellen Friedrichs health and sexual educator sexEdvice.com
  • Roxane Gay writer and HTMLGIANT contributor
  • Lynn Harris award-winning journalist, author and novelist breakupgirl.net
  • Dr. Marty Klein author, licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist
  • Amanda Marcotte writer for Salon, Slate, Bitch , The Nation and The American Prospect
  • Joan Price author, joanprice.com
  • Tracy Quan novelist, tracyquan.net
  • Thomas Roche member of the training staff at San Francisco Sex Information
  • Kevin Sampsell author and editor
  • Hugo Schwyzer teacher and writer, hugoschwyzer.net
  • Katherine Spillar founder of Feminist Majority Foundation, editor for msmagazine.com
  • Chris Sweeney freelance jounalist for Playboy, Wired and Popular Mechanics
  • Abby Tallmer freelance writer
  • Rachel Rabbit White journalist, rachelrabbitwhite.com
  • Lidia Yuknavitch author and novelist

I highly recommend this book for anyone interested in sex, sex news or just great writing. The stories collected here are some of the best of 2011. This book is published by Cleis Press and can be bought direct from them for $15.95.

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engaging and inspiring
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I would recommend this to a friend

I received this book from Cleis Press free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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Boob Lube

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in Blog Post, miscellaneous product reviews, recommended, Reviews | Posted on 16-01-2012

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Zero Tolerance has introduced a line of sex toys and accessories aimed at the male consumer. Zero Tolerance Ent. is a film studio which is widely known for it’s gonzo pornography and having the largest collection of HD porn on the market. Evolved Novelties sent me a truly novel sample of their Boob Lube to review.

I don’t really have the boobs for titty fucking, so we used this lube like we would any other water-based lubrication. It is safe for all toys and just about any kind of sex. We have used this lube for hand-jobs, anal sex and vaginal sex. It is a bit on the thick side, which was nice. It almost has a gel-type of consistency, but it worked exactly as intended. This lube stays slick much longer than I would have expected. This lube also left my skin feeling really soft everywhere it landed. I never needed to re-apply this lube for anal sex or on my toys.

Ingredients: Purified Water, Propylene Glycol, Sodium Carboxy Methyl Cellulose, Methyl Paraben, Propyl Paraben

So the good news is that this lube is really slick and doesn’t need re-application very often. I received the 2 oz. container which has a slide pop-top and is great for travel. It feels smooth and silky, almost like oil but it does not contain oil. It is easy to clean this with soap and water. I didn’t need to really clean up after this lube, as it absorbed really nicely into the skin. This lube is safe to use with condoms and for use on sensitive skin. It is tasteless and odorless.

The potentially bad news is that it does contain parabens. There is some debate about whether parabens contribute to breast cancer as some of them mimic the hormone estrogen which is thought to contribute to some forms of breast cancer. In case you are really curious about this, you can check it out on wikipedia here. Some companies have completely taken parabens out of their formulas. I personally don’t think there is enough evidence to make a good case of it either way.

I thought the bottle was really nice with the woman showing off her cleavage. I had to laugh when I saw it because I am only a B-cup…not really titty fucking size. I think the packaging is appealing, well to a dirty girl like me anyways. The writing on the bottle is in four different languages. I loved the fact that the lubrication stayed slick and didn’t need re-application. For a water-based lube this product is thick and long lasting enough to rival silicone lubes I have tried. The fact that it is safe for all my toys, well that is a big plus! Parabens don’t scare me to enough to keep me from buying or recommending a product like this. I did deduct 1/2 a star because I know it is a big deal for some people. I think this is long lasting lube in a sexy package. Boob Lube does everything I want a lube to do, without leaving a big silicone mess.

Review Summary
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Super slick without a big mess.

I received this product from Evolved Novelties free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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Sex and the Game Changer

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in Blog Post, cum, full swap, girl/girl, lifestyle, musing, oral, realtionships, sex, swinger | Posted on 15-01-2012

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I am almost sad it is Sunday already, but I am really looking forward to get to sleep at a decent hour tonight. We had a fun filled weekend but I am so exhausted now. I need a few days of to recover. Friday I started a new job. I am pretty exited about it. Friday night Miguel and I went out with the Hey Jealousy couple again. We started out bowling, then we played some pool at the bowling bar….then we went to their house.

I was so turned on, feeling really good from all the alcohol, and I sucked Miguel off in the car as we drove to their house. When we got inside the girl went right to the kitchen to make some drinks. I took my coat off and met her in the middle of her kitchen. I kissed her all over and slowly helped her out of clothes. I wanted to taste her. I got on my knees and licked and sucked her clit while the guys watched. Her breasts were so fucking perfect I wanted to devour them. This girl is no stick figure, she is perfectly proportioned. All curves and soft, I loved her body. She has a nice all over tan and long blond hair. If I had a type she would be it. It is really no wonder her fucking Miguel evokes feelings of jealousy for me. I want to be Miguel fucking this girl.

We moved over to bedroom and the guys got into the action. This time I didn’t bring any toys, I wanted so bad to make her get off. I had her lay on the bed on her back and I licked her slit. I finger fucked her and rubbed her clit. Then I moved over so Miguel could take over. Her man licked me and finger fucked me to orgasm. I was so done with foreplay at this point and I told the guy to put the condom on so her could fuck me. I was ready for cock. He put the condom on and I told him to fuck me good. I was on my back when he got it in. His style is different from Miguel, he took his time with slow strokes in and out then  speeding up for a minute and back to slow strokes. I know he was trying to redeem himself from last time, but I just wanted a good hard fuck. When he tired out he asked me to get on top. I got right up and sat on his face. I was so fucking hot I fucked his face with Miguel and the girl fucking right next to me. I rubbed my wet pussy all over his face until I was almost there. Then I straddled his cock and fucked him with no mercy. I got his cock and I milked it with my pussy. I came so good, then he came too. Miguel and the girl fucked for a few more minutes and then it seemed that we were alll done. I grabbed my clothes and went to the bathroom to get dressed.

The guy got dressed as well and we went outside so I could have a smoke. I assumed that Miguel and the girl were dressed and making small talk. I felt an urgency to hurry up with the cigarette so we could get back inside. When the guy and I walked in, we found Miguel laying back on the couch and her sucking him off. I walked over and grabbed my coat. I was fully dressed and for me the play part was over. I am still fuming over this. Later Miguel explained that she didn’t want to have him leave without him cumming…again. So like me, she feels that if the guy doesn’t cum it feels like something is wrong. Same room is something we have always agreed upon. I could barely watch when he came in her mouth. Another 2 minutes and we probably would have missed the whole fucking show. It really made me sad and mad. He broke the rule. Miguel, who made up the rule. I wonder how he would have felt if it had been the other way around.

I have pondered if I had ever done this to him. Miguel freaked out once when I kissed a guy and I was 10 feet away. He wasn’t so subtle about how he felt. The fact that there was a curtain between us infuriated him. As if I fucked someone and he was not invited. I have been careful not to forget that. I didn’t think we would recover. I was scolded the whole way home. That was two years ago. Fast forward and this is now twice that I thought we were done with the same couple and they kept going after I left the room, almost as if on purpose. I feel sick just thinking about it.

I am a jealous person. I am just built that way. The fact that someone like me could entertain a swingers lifestyle is something of a small miracle. Miguel re-assures me all the time, and still my insecurities creep in every once in a while. This is something of a game changer for me. I have to reflect and wonder…is it just me? Did Miguel have a moment of weakness and forget? No, I don’t think so. He never drinks as much as me, he is the driver. He is always more sober and more in control of himself. If it had been me on the couch, we would never see that couple again. I just keep seeing it in my head. Maybe I should have said something right then. I looked at the guy and he just shrugged, as if to say “Oh well!” I wanted to cry. I put my coat on instead.

We went to Eyz Wide Shut last night and the other couple was there. I don’t know what everyone else is thinking, but I have no intention of hooking up with them again. Miguel and the girl are still going on as if nothing bad happened. Miguel just popped his head out and told me about something about what they experienced last night. I guess they are still texting each other. I have tried to express to him how this made me feel, if I really said what I am thinking it might end up in a fight. I don’t want to fight. I don’t think he realizes the blow my ego has taken. He has done this twice now. The first time it was probably me, now I see that I need to address this. I know some would say I should shrug it off. This is just sex, and we are swingers after all. I can’t just shrug it off. I need to pause and address this before I continue. I feel like my trust has been violated no matter if it was by accident or omission.

I am just ranting now, sorry. We are suppose to be this really secure couple and we don’t fight. Those that really know us, they know that’s not true. I pout and cast silent storms when I am upset. After years of blowing up and screaming I just get quiet now. It is better that I don’t scream and say things I will probably regret later. My tongue can be razor sharp. I think we are going to be a soft swap couple for a while. Probably, this is no big deal and we will recover to play another day. Hopefully, it will truly be same room only next time. About the worst thing a swinger couple could do to each other is break their own rules. I talk about it here because I don’t have very many outlets to talk about these kinds of problems. I just need to vent and tell the whole story. I need to really put this into perspective so I can start to get over it.

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Who won some PicoBong?

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in Blog Post, Contest, winner | Posted on 13-01-2012

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I am happy to announce the winner of the PicoBong contest is…

TicklingPink

Congratulations to her! TicklingPink said she wanted to try the Kiki. Thanks so much to Babeland for sponsoring this giveaway!

Thanks to everyone who entered and shared the contest you guys rock!

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Take Me There -Book Review

Posted by BlueKaren | Posted in Blog Post, books, recommended, Reviews | Posted on 12-01-2012

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Wow! I have never read a book without gender parameters. This collection of stories was well written and made me re-think all my definitions of gender. I am bi-sexual by most definitions. This book makes me feel very tame in my sexual exploits. The stories are written without reguard to gender and yet every story is about that exactly. I don’t know how to explain it. In some of the stories I lost track of the characters actual born-with sexual identity and just went with the flow. This book is sexy as hell and it gives a no-hold-barred sneak peek into real gender-bending erotica.

This book is a collection of 29 stories published by Cleis Press. The book is edited by Tristan Taormino. She is an award-winning author, columnist, editor, filmmaker and sex-educator. I have to admit right here that this is my first taste of her work, but it won’t be my last. I don’t know alot of these writers. I am so thankful for the About the Editor and the About the Authors section at the end of every Cleis Press book so I find out more about these sexy writers! The book stories include:

  • Cocksure by Gina De Vries
  • Now, Voyager by Rahne Alexander
  • Hold Up by Ivan Coyote
  • All-Girl Action by Helen Boyd
  • The Therapist and the Whore by Giselle Renarde
  • Shoes Are Meant to Get You Somewhere by Dean Scarborough
  • On Hys Knees by Evan Swafford
  • Tel Aviv by Jacques La Fargue
  • Taking the Toll  by Kiki DeLovely
  • Dixie Belle by Kate Bornstein
  • That’s What Little Girls Are Made Of by Toni Amato
  • Sea of Cortez by Sandra MacDonald
  • The Perfect Gentleman by Andrea Zanin
  • Payback’s A Bitch by S. Bear Bergman
  • Femme Fatigue by Anna Watson
  • Small Blue Thing by Julia Serano
  • The Visible Woman by Rachel K. Zall
  • Somebody’s Watching Me by Alicia E. Goranson
  • Punching Bag by Rachel Kramer Bussel
  • You Don’t Know Jack by Michael Hernandez
  • Canadian Slim by Shawna Virago
  • The Hitchhiker by Sinclair Sexsmith
  • Out on Loan by Arden Hill
  • From Fucktoy to Footstool by Zev
  • Self-Reflection by Tobi Hill-Meyer
  • Face Pack by Penelope Mansfield
  • The Boy the Beast Wants by Skian McGuire
  • The Man wit the Phoenix Tattoo by Laura Antoniou
  • Best Gifts in Small Boxes: A Christmas Story by Patrick Califia

As you can see by some of the titles, some of these stories involve BDSM. These stories include clothing fetishes, fisting and sex toys. The cocks and pussies in this story aren’t always what they seem. The characters range from humiliated to triumphant. I am in love with the places these stories took me. While not every story appealed to me, it was all eye-opening kink. Some of which I had never dreamed to fantasize about.

Some of the stories read like confessions. Payback’s A Bitch was so short and sweet, about a man who starts on the top and ends up at the bottom. Another short story I loved was Small Blue Thing I loved that the author wrote a story like poetry spilling a little secret to my very surprised eyes.

The Therapist and the Whore had a character so honest I was shocked at the ending. This story about a butch dyke who sees a whore (who just happens to have a dick) and lies to her therapist, well… it was just sexy as hell! The twisting of gender in this story was enough but the characters had depth and left me wanting to read more about Manny.

Fucktoy to Footstool is another awesome story about a sub who serves his male Dom. To peek into his thoughts as he serves his master, so dirty. His thoughts as he gives his master a handjob with dirty boxers on his head and clamps on all his sensitive spots, just what you would expect from a good sub.

I want to tell you about all the stories, but let me instead tell you to buy this book. I loved the variety and kink within it’s pages. I highly recommend this! If you have ever wondered what happens when there are not boundaries to sex and gender, this book tells some stories that may satisfy your curiosity.

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Book by Tristan Taormino
Format: Flexi Cover
Publisher: Cleis Press Inc.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer.

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