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| April 27, 2012
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Loose Ends in the Lifestyle

Eyz Wide Shut

Last night we went out to the club. Due to a series of unfortunate events I will be working the next few weekends. Working weekends=no Saturday night out fun. Bummer, I know! I was promised this is just temporary. Don’t even get me started about what happened. Let’s just say I like my job a lot less these days. Moving on…

So we go out to the club last night, Thursday night. I had very low expectations for the crowd and I was right. The crowd was really small but surprisingly we met some new people and had a few established friends in the crowd. When we first got there Miguel headed straight to the bar to get us some drinks. I went to harass the DJ and when I met up with him I was mauled by a familiar female. This girl is never that touchy so right away I knew something was rotten in Denmark. As soon as she spoke I heard the slur and smelled the alcohol. This chic was wasted. Not only that, but her eyes were puffy meaning she had been crying. This was a complete surprise. I have seen people get drunk at the club, hell even I have gotten a bit sloppy drunk, but this was waaaaasssted drunk.

Miguel and I tried to be polite. “Ooh my, what happened?” But I really shouldn’t have asked. It was a bad break-up. Hey! We have all been there, right? I have been that chic, but I don’t have to like seeing it. Painful to watch, really. The worst part was that in the middle of everything she invited us to a party she is hosting tonight. We couldn’t go even if we wanted to. I am sure today will be another drunk, crying party delaying the inevitable sober reality check. Fuck! I have so been there and it totally sucks, but there is a time and a place for that kind of drama. It is not at the club on my night out. Gah! Anyways, she verified she had my correct phone number. Then at like 1:30 am, we were at home and just about asleep, my phone rings. It was her and I let it go to voice-mail. WTF could motivate someone to call at that time and at that stage of drunken night out? I already know because, well, let’s just say I have family like that. Nothing good comes of those phone calls. I loose my cool and usually just end up telling them to go ahead and slit their wrists so I can get some fucking sleep. (I am not going to be getting any prizes for patience anytime soon, but I just have no room in my head for anyone’s pity party, grow the fuck up!)

It is almost a joke when we go out to the club. People that know me, know about my blog. They always joke about stuff that is “blog-worthy”. Some people are sure I am going to run home and type up a report of their stuff, and some really hope I do. Not that I am even anything major, but I put it out there on the net for anyone with a computer to see. I am discreet to a point, I never blast anyone’s name. I am even careful about describing people, lest everyone who follows me be able to connect the dots. I kiss and tell, and I tell I tell. That being said, my blog is mine. If you want me to write nice things about you, then just behave better.

This morning I check my messages and I am hoping that call was not intentional and more like a butt-dial. It was just a bit ridiculous.

Now that I have that off my plate, let me tell you about something cool that happened last night. A chic we have seen there a few times, a Unicorn, answered a few questions for me. I am always curious about the motivations of a Unicorn. (BTW a Unicorn is a single female in the “lifestyle”, they are so rare they are almost a myth) We have had three types of unicorns and none of them were that great. One Unicorn was really only interested in me, another was only interested in Miguel, and the other wanted us to be exclusively with her. So I had to ask her what being a unicorn is like. This chic is living the life, I’m telling you. If Miguel ever dies, (cause ya, he will have to be dead to be rid of me) I am gonna become a Unicorn. She said whenever she is not in a relationship, she swings. Inside of a relationship, she is exclusive. I asked her about jealousy and she said that she doesn’t get exclusive with couples, she doesn’t want the baggage. She also said that she gets to know the couple for a while before she plays with them. Her playmates are her good friends. That is an excellent policy. She just cuts ties with people that want her all to themselves. I am very curious about a person that controls themselves like that. I bet she is enjoying the best of both by keeping them separate. But I wonder….if she had to choose either swinger or exclusivity, which would it be? Swinging for a Unicorn is different. I have even seen single males who have been playing for years, drop completely out of the lifestyle for the right woman. I don’t think, well, I actually don’t ever want to find out. Being part of a couple in the lifestyle is hard and requires work, but I think I would prefer it to any other set up.

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| April 15, 2012
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Friday Night at the Club

Eyz Wide Shut

So we went out on Friday night to Eyz Wide Shut and we went as a soft swap couple. We drank and danced and had a great time. Fridays at the club are sort of hit or miss and the club was not packed with people we knew. I gave the DJ my preference for songs and hit the dance floor. Sad to say that most of the club had voyeurs and not too many people were bold enough to dance. I didn’t really care if I was the only one out there at times. I love to dance. After a few really good songs a sexy chic in a black dress came out and danced with me for a bit. She danced close and we kissed a few times. Miguel did what he does best and went over to talk to the guy. This couple was very sexy. I think this was really fate, they were soft swap only as well.

This couple was alot of fun. They sat and chatted with us for quite a while. We did go outside with them a few times. She bummed a cigarette and we talked about quitting and how sometimes it just sucks. I am still vaping, but I must admit that I bummed a cigarette too. I just needed a reminder, cigarette smoking is part of this routine I have at the club. Hopefully not anymore. The cigarette tasted awful honestly. I don’t think I will have another.

Eventually, we finished our drinks and headed over to the lodging side together. We ended up in a private room, just the four of us. Some how we have never been in this room. I swear I thought we had been in every room. Anyways, it was a small room with two beds side by side and lots of well placed mirrors. We got in the room and all took our clothes off. She started out by sucking her man’s cock, and I sucked Miguel off. She had an amazing body. This girl was pretty amazing. She was so sexy and sensual.

We had some great girl/girl play. She licked and sucked my pussy so well. She had a neutral taste and I enjoyed playing with her and eating her pussy as well. I could have swore that they said they were “newbies” but she had no shyness about her. She explored every bit of my pussy with her tongue and then she went back to fuck her man. Miguel ate out my pussy while she kissed me and played with my tits. There was alot of touching and stroking while we all had sex. She even ate me out while her man fucked her from behind, Miguel had a nice view of that. Miguel fucked me so good. I got on top of Miguel at one point and I was going to use a toy on my clit. It ended up that the toy was completely dead. How the fuck? Oh well! I was so mad about the toy that I threw it across the room. (I didn’t break it, thankfully) I got off plenty when Miguel used his finger to rub my clit while he fucked me. I reached over and rubbed hers while her man fucked her. I think her man ended up coming on her beautiful tits, but the details of that are a bit foggy. We both came home exhausted and I fell right to sleep. I know we all had a great time.

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| March 11, 2012
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Stranger Sex

Eyz Wide Shut

I have no motivation today. I am sitting here with a list of shit to do today and I can’t get out of this chair. I am a bit sore from last night, my back really. I had such a good time last night, and I can check one thing off my stupid list!

There was a line out the door when we arrived last night at Eyz Wide Shut. I have never seen that. They say it got like that on New Year’s Eve, but we missed the rush by getting there late. It was packed and I had a lot of fun. By the time we went to the lodging I had lost all my lipstick, making out with people in the club. No jealousy last night, we went to have a good time and I was flirting with everyone. I actually lost track of Miguel a few times. Everything just flowed perfectly as I shifted my focus from sex with Miguel, to flirting with everyone else. I think jealous girl is gone. Everyone loved the corset too, btw…

We lost an hour somewhere, I think it was while we were busy in one of the rooms. I don’t care. It was packed last night, even the hedo room and lover’s lane were pretty full. Luckily, a couple left a room and we claimed it after it was cleaned. I stripped off my jeans and got on all fours still wearing the corset. The mirrors in the room allowed for the perfect view everywhere I looked. Miguel got up behind me and rubbed his cock on my slit, it slid right in and he pumped it into me. Miguel fucking me from behind and I got a great view of his ass as he humped his cock into me. He pulled out of my soaked pussy and started fumbling threw my bag. He found a vibrator and handed it to me. He ordered me to play with myself and slipped a blindfold over my eyes. “I am going to get you your wish, a stranger to fuck”. I had a vibrator in my hand working my clit and I came and came in anticipation.

I heard some fumbling in the room. I reached for Miguel and he guided my hand to his cock as another hand, a stranger’s hand, worked my pussy. Miguel stood next to me as a stranger’s mouth began to lick and suck my pussy. The blindfold prevented me from seeing anything with my eyes so I let me hands see for me. This man had his head buried in my snatch and I ground my pussy into his face while jacking Miguel’s cock with my right hand. I felt lips and tongue and teeth as this man devoured my flower. I was so ready for strange cock. Miguel got so hot watching he had to pull away from me stroking his cock a few times.

The guy pulled away to sheath his cock and then he impaled me with it. The curve on his cock was profound. The feeling of his pumping was so different. I was getting my wish. A stranger was fucking me. First as I lay on my back, then I was flipped over and he fucked me from behind. Eventually, the guy lay down on the bed and I got on top. He unzipped the top of my corset and tweaked my nipples with his hands as I rode his cock. We finished like that, or should I say he finished. Every time I reached for Miguel he was right there, keeping close watch. There were no words exchanged after he came. I rolled over and waited for Miguel to see him out of the room. He served his purpose, my dildo for the night. He ordered me to keep playing with myself if I wanted more, which of course I did. I slid the vibrator all over my labia and clit, rubbing it in circles hoping to orgasm. I needed a cock to help me out. I pleaded with Miguel to fuck me so I could cum on his cock. I needed his fat cock to fill me up and pump my pussy while I worked the vibrator on my clit. I was right there when he came and pulled out. I continued to work my clit. I was insatiable last night. I still wanted more. After a quick recovery, Miguel sat and watched me struggle to reach orgasm. It was taking too long, I almost gave up. Because he knew I needed it, he finger fucked my g-spot until I cried out. Waves of orgasm washing over me and I writhed on the bed my pussy clenching his fingers as he rode my orgasm out to completion.

We left out of there and it was after 3 am. The club was closed, any after parties would take place without us. We were invited but too tired to play anymore. I think next weekend a full swap is in order. Miguel gave me what I wanted, all I had to do was ask. I want to watch Miguel next time…

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| February 26, 2012
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A Good Day and Sexy Night

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Yesterday went so well, it make all the week’s toils worth it. We took our new car for a long trip with all the kids in tow. It felt so good to not have to worry about breaking down. Those of you that have ever had car issues can probably relate. We just had a great family day and my heart was full. Last night was one of the funnest nights I have had in a while at Eyz Wide Shut. The place was packed by 11pm. Last night we headed out in very good spirits and we didn’t get home till after 3:30am. Time seemed to go really fast on the club side. We chatted with everyone we could and we almost headed over to the lodging an hour early. I had a feeling that we should wait and my hunch turned out to be exactly what we needed.

When we finally did go to the lodging side we were accompanied by two couples. We had a little bit of a problem finding a room and we had one but they were already in Lover’s lane by that time. As soon as we walked in the door there were the couples already naked and ready to play. The girls were laying next to each other on the couches with the guys on either side. Miguel and I picked a spot next to them. I was wearing a black corset top and some jeans. I ended up not even taking off the corset but i removed everything else. Miguel stripped down completely like the other couples so they were all in the buff. We were right in the doorway of the entrance to these two common rooms. Every time a new couple (or couples) walked in one of the guys would say “Oh by the way, there might be naked people in here.” It was pretty comical.

I just happened to have two clitoral toys with me, so I got to work immediately in fishing them out of my bag to put them to work. First I had my new Mia, and I worked that on the “new” couple. This is a couple we had talked to for a few Saturdays and we shared an interest in LELO toys. I knew she might like the Mia, since she was pretty impressed with the Liv her husband bought her. This Mia is one from the re-designed line and it’s vibrations are pretty impressive. Shaped like a lipstick, it is pretty and a very effective clitoral vibe. This girl was so cute with a sexy curvy shape on her small frame. Her breasts were so full and beautiful I started there and played with them a bit, and then I went to work on her clit. She was very “neutral” tasting just like the girl from the other couple. I licked and sucked her clit and I tried to work her clit manually, but my nails do not allow for rough play. I got the Mia out and made it do all the hard work. After jacking her clit for a few minutes I guided her hand over to the toy and she took over.

Moving down the line, to the other girl who I knew needed a bit of power. I brought out the Life by Leaf for her. I am pretty familiar with this sexy bitch and I know she likes it rough. I didn’t have to worry about hurting her. I licked and sucked her clit, then I put the Life on full blast and applied steady pressure on her clit. About 30 seconds after I applied the Life to her clit she squirted all over. It shot about 3 feet out and drenched the floor. I had about a five second warning when she said, “I’m gonna squirt!” It was pretty cool to watch! It would have sucked to be showered by it though. Only when I heard chuckles all around us did I realize what an audience we had. She wanted to do it again with the Life on her clit but I was pretty ready for some action myself so I guided her hand over to the toy and moved over to Miguel.

Scenes like this make me so glad we chose this lifestyle. I got fucked every which way, somehow we fucked on both sides of these two couples. Hands were outstretched and there was some cross groping going on making the sex so much hotter. As if seeing the couple next to you was not enough to turn us on, reaching out and stroking them made it feel real, and was such a fucking turn on. I was on my hands and knees getting it from behind with a great view of what the couple next to us was doing. Miguel was fucking me so hard and putting so much pressure on my ass, it was hard to fall over but I did pretty good staying up. Then Miguel would have me flip over so he could fuck me missionary style. He tried to get me to go on top, but I protested and he finished off soon after. My thighs were seriously wasted from dancing for like 4 hours with hardly any breaks. We were both completely spent afterwards.We ran into more friends on the way out, with an invitation to play some more. We just could though, I needed food!

The ride home was a big blur of lights and Taco Bell. We walked in the door to find a sick child with my Mom and it’s back to reality.

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| February 20, 2012
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Squirting?

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We went out to Eyz Wide Shut last night. It was so nice getting out. I really look forward to Saturdays to cut loose have a few drinks and dance. I found a little black dress and some fishnets. I was feeling very good about myself as we headed out in our new car. Miguel was looking really hot as usual. He accompanied me to the mall yesterday. I am sure this is about his most un-favorite task in the world. I am not always an easy shopper and yesterday we went to more than 4 shops in the mall, each of which had stuff I had to try on. Yea, I tried his patience. I thanked him for his time with some head before we left the house. Then again in the car on the way to the club, verbally. His reply was “Oh yea no problem, but can we actually try swinging tonight?”

My immediate internal response was very defensive, but then I realized he was right. I really don’t try to meet new people and hook-up. I don’t do any of the shopping, so I have no idea how much time and effort he puts into meeting people just for me to go “Nah!” How frustrating it must be for my lover! Last night I did make a conscious effort be friendly, to be provocative, to make suggestions. The club has become a place where we meet a bunch of friends and fuck none of them. Why is that? I imagine it has something to do with play-timing. We are early players and all of our friends are not. I think we need to make dates with some of these people outside of the club.

Anyways, it ended up just being Miguel and I when we went next door. Every room was full, so we went to the dungeon. I had already lost my panties earlier in the night due to a provacative game that left them drenched. Miguel placed the blindfold on me and strapped me into the St.Andrew’s Cross. He hiked up my skirt around my hips, and rubbed his hand over my ass. Then the smacking started. Smacking is so much more personally than the flogger in my opinion. Anticipation, followed by sharp white pain, followed by anticipation. He surprised me with the timing and was gently when I least expected it. I always thought, ouch it’s too much, but it seemed just enough. I took my licks without complaint, and was grateful. At some point he had one hand on my wet slit and the other one working my reddened ass. He was rubbing lightly on my clit, kinda flicking it. And then it happened. I felt warmth and extreme wetness. I immediately felt like I was done. I asked him to stop right after he commented on how wet I was. “Babe, I just squirted!”

I know it was not pee, it didn’t smell and it was completely clear. I squirted, I know I did. I felt an immediate release, like cumming but not quite the same. I definitely felt like I had finished something. Some of you may know I had this debate forever about squirting. (See Squirting Mystery) I had all but decided it was pee until a friend of mine showed me how she did it. When I saw her squirt I was convinced it was something that could really happen, but I never thought it could happen to me.

So maybe we didn’t swing last Saturday, instead we squirted. Then we had awesome sex in Lover’s Lane with an audience. It is still freaken’ freaky great! So now I am going to be a very busy person trying to figure out exactly how to make that happen again. ~smirk~

As always, I would love to hear your stories. Have you ever squirted? Have you ever seen it?

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| February 12, 2012
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Swinging with Sex Toys

Eyz Wide Shut

Last night at Eyz Wide Shut a really cool thing happened, two people whom I have never met came up to me and said they read my blog. The world is smaller than I think. I always imagine I write this blog and I have a few readers, but they are probably too far away for me to ever meet. It is a really cool thing, to be spotted by someone that appreciates all the hard work that goes into this little sliver of the world wide web. This blog has become a very needy child in my life. I love it and labor over its behavior. I check my stats daily and approve of it comments and links. Does it influence people? Is it easy to relate to it’s content? I hope the answer is always yes.

Last night was the Valentine’s Party at Eyz Wide Shut. They had a Mr. & Mrs. Eyz Wide Shut competition and the winners got free membership for a year. This game was originally suppose to take place on Friday so I thought I missed it. I really wanted to play, but Miguel said “No Mas” to playing games. I was outside when it started and didn’t get to participate. The winner were some nice people anyways and I hope free membership will encourage them to come out more often. Why they need a monthly membership to a club that doesn’t keep track of it’s patrons, I will never understand. I am hoping at least with my new employment we will be able to go without finances stopping us. I absolutely need my downtime, and the club has become a very familiar routine to me.

After drinking and dancing, entirely too much for a white girl, we headed over to the lodging side. The place was packed with bodies, even the Hedo Room and Lover’s Lane were pretty full. There just wasn’t a quiet corner for us. All of the rooms were taken, as well. Lucky for us we knew they had another play room and they opened it when we asked. The Western room is where we ended up. I have only glimpsed this room before. It’s so named because of a horse saddle and a very well placed Hitachi wand on a low bench. Miguel suggested that I use that Hitachi with my panties on to start with. I hiked up my dress and went for a ride on the saddle.

I hate to admit this, but I do not own a Hitachi. I have played with one before, and I do reference it’s strength of vibrations quite a lot. The Hitachi is the staple of woman’s wands, nothing else really comes close to being as recognizable. Initially intended for deep tissue massage at home, it quickly became popular as a sex toy. Before I started reviewing sex toys, a Unicorn came over and brought her Hitachi with her to play. I orgasmed in less than one minute with it. I have lusted after one ever since. This toy is loud and very large. If you look at bondage pics you will eventually run into a picture of a woman tied up and a Hitachi bound to her. This is a common bondage, forced orgasms by Hitachi. I tried to trade for one on a popular toy swap site, but the box came to me open and empty. I was sorely disappointed. Then, I actually won one in a contest, but the toy store was out of stock and so I have to wait again. I will eventually have one of my very own, I can hardly wait!

After riding on the saddle for only a few minutes I came and I was really for a good fuck. Miguel was so patient waiting for me I thought I would reward him by sucking his cock. I am all about sucking his cock lately and I didn’t mind at all to help him get nice and stiff for me. He had me lay back after a few minutes and he fucked me really good missionary style. The wets sounds of his cock pumping my pussy filled the room. He fucked me until he was exhausted. Furiously fast, and then slowing down to keep from cuming. He laid down next to me and I got on top to finish him off. The mirrors in this room were perfectly laid out so I could see his cock going into me when I looked back. This sent me right over the edge of ecstasy and I rode him even harder. He grabbed my throat as he came into me. We were both completely spend after this.

The allure of going there hasn’t worn off. We both need a night out and have made many friends at Eyz. For us it is a place where we can get away and meet other swingers. Being able to have sex and get loud, or have other people join in or watch is an added perk. Some nights we have an audience, some nights we are the audience. I find my kink is fulfilled in this lifestyle. I met some other toy lovers at the club and tried to share what I have learned in the past year reviewing sex toys with them. One of the new couples we met were happy to tell me about their new Lelo Liv and what it had added to their sex life. I made a few suggestions and congratulated them on purchasing good quality sex toys. Another single guy I met was really excited to tell me about a finger vibe he loves to share with his lovers. I took the opportunity to try to educate him about safe materials. To him I probably seemed a sex toy snob. At least he seemed willing to listen. I dropped names like Tantus, Leaf, We-Vibe and Lelo and mentioned a few sex toy sites I trust. My swingers friends call me the sex toy queen. I love it. Next weekend we can’t go out at all. Our babysitter is leaving for the weekend. I guess we will have to find other ways to amuse ourselves, I am sure it won’t be difficult.

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