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My Little Secret

I got one out of the archives for you to enjoy….We got a little something planned for this evening, I hope! I will give you all the juicy details, of course…..


A funny thing happened a few months back. We had a couple over our place, they were pretty young and we had mostly of girl on girl action. Miguel was taking photos and the guy from the other couple was also taking photos. This guy was playing director, asking us to try different angles. It was different and a little uncomfortable but I think it was his first experience with taking pictures. After a few hints from Miguel he finally put away the camera and we got down to business. It was a soft swap, so I paired with Miguel and she with her man. We parted and agreed that we should meet again.

A few days later, Miguel and I were looking on craig’s list and there is an ad for a sexy young couple with a bi-curious female, that wants to do a soft swap. We open the ad the, and it is a pic of a girl straddling another girl and her face is blacked out. I recognized the sheets, and some of the bedroom furniture in the picture. Wouldn’t you know it? It is that same young couple and the naked girl on the bottom is me! The picture was takin in my room.

Sometimes when I go out, I think people recognize me. When a person stares too long, or gets a mischievous grin. We are on multiple adult sites, and it seems our pics are everywhere on the internet. We even have a few videos with me playing the starring role. It is a kinda funny because I never know, did they recognize me? I used to work retail and I was a little horrified to think of someone calling me out to my co-workers. Exposing my secret….I am a swinger. Miguel and I fuck other people, and we like it. My vanilla friends,(as I like to call them), don’t have a clue. I hear them tell all their exciting stories about how their weekend went, and I bite my tongue. Some of them would even say I am uptight cause I don’t kiss and tell about my weekends, and I never tell them what clubs I frequent. Can you imagine their surprise?
When I see people sometimes I size them up. We never know the real truth about people and their sex lives. Almost everyone of my ex’s wanted to invite someone else in the bedroom, but openly swing, no never! The thought of sharing on a regular basis is taboo. Right now, I really don’t care if people know who I am. I am a bit of a slut, you mine as well know the truth. I like to have sex.

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Until next time Lovelies, keep it sexy!

How It All Started

One of our favorite questions is “Whose idea was this?” We always ask new couples that we meet and it is almost always the guy who brought it up. Wanting to spice things up, or he was feeling like a stallion stud and wanted to share his hot tamale with a lucky friend, or they had a female friend and she got in the mix one night. Of course in my relationship, it was Miguel’s idea.
I think it is always interesting to hear the story, so I am gonna tell you mine.

We used to go out to bars to play pool and one night Miguel said he was taking me somewhere special. I got dressed in my sexy black dress and we headed out. We had talked about it for a few weeks and I had shared my experiences….seems like I had something extracurricular in all of my past “monogamous” relationships. With the guys consent of course, or we had talked about inviting someone in our bed….damn that was a reoccurring theme in all my past relationships, how much different could it really be to have a swinger title?
So we headed out to a swinger club. I gotta be honest, I was scared. What kind of people do this? Ewww, is it gonna be a bunch of ugly people who hate their mates. Or is it gonna be a bunch of porn stars that I can’t even compete with? We met both that night at the club for the first time. Mostly thou it was people like us…voyeurs and exhibitionists, people who like to get sexy and fuck…
We had a few drinks, we watched other people. I gave Miguel head in a room full of people, most didn’t seem to notice. We picked a room we liked, it ended up not having any doors, and we had sex.
We did our first show that night. Nobody joined in but they got real close and watched, some cheered us on, it was pretty damned hot! We could get loud and no babies would wake up. I loved being watched, I loved getting to watch others.
It was so hot we we went back the following week.
Then, the club closed. Some stupid zoning law, and it was just as well it was pretty far to drive. So we got on some websites and made some new friends. Our appetites were wet for it, the thrill of sharing our bedroom with strangers, and new friends. We are not gonna give this up anytime soon. Luckily we found out how much fun we could have before we got too old. I am glad we tried something new, that we had enough trust. I have not regretted any encounter. I learned so much about Miguel and myself, and our relationship.

So that is how it all began. We have no problems meeting people now. We both know enough about our partner to know if the person(or couple) is a possible match. Each encounter is different, we keep adding new things to the list of things we are gonna try. It is really fabulous! We keep our simple rules and no one ever takes one for the team, lol!
So that’s it for our swinger lifestyle, the making of history. I would love to hear your story.