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Performance Issues


We had an interesting weekend. We went to a party in Sarasota run by the great folks over at Florida’s Finest Couples. They throw parties once a month and they are always packed. This weekend was no exception, to the point where we were glad we got there early so we could find a place to park! I had a blast there talking to people and dancing. I don’t dance well, but I love to do it. I was super excited about this night because of a certain couple we met the week before.

The weird part about this night was how many couples we were suppose to be meeting there. We had a great table by the dance floor so were able to see a lot of people. We don’t make it down to Sarasota often, so this was a good chance to meet people we, (and by that I mean Miguel) have been talking to. Our table was crowded with people. We had a lot of couples talking to us: some because we talked to them, some recognized us from social profiles, and some where fans of my blog. It was fun but a bit overwhelming. We had a couple buy us shots and I got to dance with almost everyone. We don’t normally get so much attention, but I get super social after a few drinks and I might be the kind of person that invites all that attention. I even went off about it on twitter, (thank you after midnight twitter friends)! Anyways, there were a lot of people talking to us but….

I actually walked into the club with an agenda. I have cautioned against this so many times even here on my blog…please don’t try to live out some fantasy with strangers. I broke my own rule and it came back to bite me! We met a couple last weekend at Eyz that I really wanted to play with. We ended up leaving early last weekend and I was so hoping to get a chance this weekend with them. I have been thinking about them all week. I hoped they would show up, I hoped they would like us as much as we liked them. They showed up at the party and that was it for me. I made my choice and we were going home with them!

They are a very sexy couple. They were good hosts and we enjoyed some good conversation. We moved over to the bedroom and then…things went bad for me. There was nothing wrong with him at all, let me make that clear. I just had…issues. I just walked away feeling like I could have been so much better. I can’t recall ever feeling like this after a hook-up. I don’t even know if the guy would say it sucked, but I do. I had a bad night, and I didn’t even drink too much so I have no excuse. I think I built it up too much in my head. I kinda had this idea of what he would be like, and then it just wasn’t like that at all. I hate the feeling that this is the impression they are left with. Miguel and her seemed to hit it off well. She was very sexy and I focused on her for a bit. I tried to make it up, I am pretty sure I was able to get her off. Thank you shareable silicone toys. It just doesn’t make up for him and potentially ruining a good fuck. I wanted to call “do-over”, but that is not going to happen. This is a bad feeling. I told Miguel this must be how guys feel when they can’t perform, or when they cum too fast. This is a crappy feeling.

The good news is that I know where things went wrong and how I can avoid these issues in the future. I am truly humbled by this experience. I think this could have happened to anybody, and it is not the end of the world. I just think it is an odd thing for a woman to feel this way. I now understand, I fucking get how a woman can just totally ruin shit with performance issues. I hope I will remember this and be more fun next time. I hope I will be more understanding when a guy is having issues in the future.

Mojo Back

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We tried to do something different this past Saturday night. In case you don’t know, Saturday is our official date night. We almost always go out. Unless one of us is sick, or we have no money (actually, even then we still try). This Saturday we were going to try to go to a local swinger house party. Let me just say here that the location was all wrong. Not that we live in a great neighborhood or we are fucking snobs or anything, but somethings you can just tell by the location. So we scraped that plan when we realized where it was and went to Eyz Wide Shut.

We have discussed how we never really play that much when we go to Eyz, like maybe we lost our mojo. The truth is that we, (and by we I mean me) get so fucking caught up in everything swinging just falls to the side. I have been trying to figure out how to get my mojo back. We talked to other couples who frequent the club and I realized it is not just us. Sometimes it is just like that. Yo can do “all the right stuff” (be available, talk to people, invest time with a couple…) and still not end up swinging. I decided to just have fun, and try not to be so hard on myself about it. So when a couple we have seen a few times started to dance with me, I just had fun and let it happen. Of course, when they asked if we wanted to play we said yes.

>>Fast forward through a few drinks and some dancing. We all went next door to the lodging side to play.

I was wearing a corset and a little black skirt. We got a room right away and as soon as we were all in I stripped off my panties and pulled my skirt up. The girl was wearing a low cut top, skirt and fishnet stockings. What I didn’t realize is that underneath her top was a peek-a-boo bra, and her stockings were crotchless. (Thinking now how I have to get a pair of crotchless fishnet, She looked so hot!) She had nice full breasts and a clean smooth pussy. I buried my face in her snatch and worked my fingers on her g-spot.

I almost forgot about the guys in the room until Miguel stuck his fingers into me from behind. I decided to give Miguel a taste of her and I moved out so Miguel could move in. He went to town licking and sucking her pussy. Her man took his opportunity to go down on me and we enjoyed our first full swap in over a month with this couple. His cock was long and pretty thick. Try as I might I could not get all of it in my mouth. I did my best licking and sucking while working my hands on the shaft. I couldn’t wait for him to fuck me with this monster. I was practically begging him to fuck me. He instructed me to lay back and then he impaled me with his cock. Miguel and the girl were busy fucking right next to us. I was so turned on I came after a few thrusts. He fucked me good. Like a jackhammer he drilled his cock into me.

Miguel took a break after a while but this guy just kept going. He finally came and we decided to watch Miguel and his wife. It was hot to watch and we made out. He licked all over my neck and shoulders. “Pull my hair”, I told him. He kissed me then real nice and deep while he pulled my hair. I felt him get semi-hard again while we made out and I worked my mouth on his cock again getting his cock back to life. I got on my knees in anticipation and placed my ass near the end of the bed. The bed was really high and my thighs were almost flush with the bed as he fucked me again. He fucked me slow and then fast. He stopped a few times to tell me how hot my ass looked as his dipped his fingers into my rosebud. I came again. I looked over and caught the last few seconds as the wife orally manipulated Miguel into cuming into her mouth.

It was a great night. It seems like my mojo is just fine!

About the Size of It

Humble apologies as I know I will not be blogging much this week. We are moving next weekend. I got the keys this weekend so we will be making daily trips after work trying to get as much done by moving day. Gah! I don’t really know what else to say about that, it is what it is. I promise to be posting more after next weekend.

We had a different kind of weekend. Friday we went to a couple’s house and had a full swap. They were great hosts, and very sexy. We played strip poker, it was fun. I even mixed beer and vodka and managed to not get sick. We had fun, well kinda… She was really cute and sexy. He was not bad looking but I initially had some reservations. They seemed like alot of fun so I went with it. I should have trusted my instinct.

We started off playing strip poker. Miguel won, as he still had clothes long after we all lost ours. We got a bit uninhibited as we got to know each other better. She tried to share her toys with me, since we were at her place. Oh man! I just said no thanks when I realized they were all jelly and/or TPE. I bring my own toys, thankfully, so nothing was shared. We moved into the bedroom after the game. Miguel and the chic and me with the guy. I didn’t look at his size, and I guess I should have. Really though, you can’t know for sure until it is hard. I hate to sound shallow, but cock size is a bit important. I am not the type that asks, but I may just make it a policy in the future. The guy was small, like too small to enjoy. I gotta give him credit for trying to work it, though. His chic was pretty hot and she seemed to be really happy with Miguel’s equipment. No wonder, really. Miguel isn’t the biggest guy, but his is thick and long enough to get me off. Gah! I am talking about cock size! I never wanted to be that chic that calls for big cock. The best thing you can do, if your cock is really too small for enjoyment, is to try to get off faster. Believe me when I say, nothing is worse than prolonging something I am not enjoying anyways. Don’t fucking give me some shit about not knowing if I am enjoying it, you have to know. Guy obsess about cock size, much more than any woman I have ever met. You know your dick is small, like I know my tits are small. Having to apply lube every 8-10 mins should give you a clue. I realize that some of the longevity can be attributed to condom use. Maybe it was me, my body type or smallish tits, whatever. I don’t know. I walked away from that experience and I wonder why I even bothered. I did get some great glimpses of Miguel enjoying himself. There was even some talk of double penetration, but it just didn’t happen. That would have been cool to watch.

So the hook up wasn’t that great.

Moving on…

Yesterday we had a birthday in my family. These parties are mandatory fun if I want to not be disowned. 120 miles to go to a birthday party! Miguel and I managed to get through it, but by the time we came home we were too tired to do anything and we just fell asleep. Major suckage as I haven’t been laid properly at all this weekend. There is still tonight, and I mean to make it count. We spent most of today taking trips over to the new house. I am exhausted, and the day is not over yet. I am looking forward to a hot shower and a cold beer and some sexy time with Miguel. It is my turn for a good time.

Sex and the Game Changer

I am almost sad it is Sunday already, but I am really looking forward to get to sleep at a decent hour tonight. We had a fun filled weekend but I am so exhausted now. I need a few days of to recover. Friday I started a new job. I am pretty exited about it. Friday night Miguel and I went out with the Hey Jealousy couple again. We started out bowling, then we played some pool at the bowling bar….then we went to their house.

I was so turned on, feeling really good from all the alcohol, and I sucked Miguel off in the car as we drove to their house. When we got inside the girl went right to the kitchen to make some drinks. I took my coat off and met her in the middle of her kitchen. I kissed her all over and slowly helped her out of clothes. I wanted to taste her. I got on my knees and licked and sucked her clit while the guys watched. Her breasts were so fucking perfect I wanted to devour them. This girl is no stick figure, she is perfectly proportioned. All curves and soft, I loved her body. She has a nice all over tan and long blond hair. If I had a type she would be it. It is really no wonder her fucking Miguel evokes feelings of jealousy for me. I want to be Miguel fucking this girl.

We moved over to bedroom and the guys got into the action. This time I didn’t bring any toys, I wanted so bad to make her get off. I had her lay on the bed on her back and I licked her slit. I finger fucked her and rubbed her clit. Then I moved over so Miguel could take over. Her man licked me and finger fucked me to orgasm. I was so done with foreplay at this point and I told the guy to put the condom on so her could fuck me. I was ready for cock. He put the condom on and I told him to fuck me good. I was on my back when he got it in. His style is different from Miguel, he took his time with slow strokes in and out then¬† speeding up for a minute and back to slow strokes. I know he was trying to redeem himself from last time, but I just wanted a good hard fuck. When he tired out he asked me to get on top. I got right up and sat on his face. I was so fucking hot I fucked his face with Miguel and the girl fucking right next to me. I rubbed my wet pussy all over his face until I was almost there. Then I straddled his cock and fucked him with no mercy. I got his cock and I milked it with my pussy. I came so good, then he came too. Miguel and the girl fucked for a few more minutes and then it seemed that we were alll done. I grabbed my clothes and went to the bathroom to get dressed.

The guy got dressed as well and we went outside so I could have a smoke. I assumed that Miguel and the girl were dressed and making small talk. I felt an urgency to hurry up with the cigarette so we could get back inside. When the guy and I walked in, we found Miguel laying back on the couch and her sucking him off. I walked over and grabbed my coat. I was fully dressed and for me the play part was over. I am still fuming over this. Later Miguel explained that she didn’t want to have him leave without him cumming…again. So like me, she feels that if the guy doesn’t cum it feels like something is wrong. Same room is something we have always agreed upon. I could barely watch when he came in her mouth. Another 2 minutes and we probably would have missed the whole fucking show. It really made me sad and mad. He broke the rule. Miguel, who made up the rule. I wonder how he would have felt if it had been the other way around.

I have pondered if I had ever done this to him. Miguel freaked out once when I kissed a guy and I was 10 feet away. He wasn’t so subtle about how he felt. The fact that there was a curtain between us infuriated him. As if I fucked someone and he was not invited. I have been careful not to forget that. I didn’t think we would recover. I was scolded the whole way home. That was two years ago. Fast forward and this is now twice that I thought we were done with the same couple and they kept going after I left the room, almost as if on purpose. I feel sick just thinking about it.

I am a jealous person. I am just built that way. The fact that someone like me could entertain a swingers lifestyle is something of a small miracle. Miguel re-assures me all the time, and still my insecurities creep in every once in a while. This is something of a game changer for me. I have to reflect and wonder…is it just me? Did Miguel have a moment of weakness and forget? No, I don’t think so. He never drinks as much as me, he is the driver. He is always more sober and more in control of himself. If it had been me on the couch, we would never see that couple again. I just keep seeing it in my head. Maybe I should have said something right then. I looked at the guy and he just shrugged, as if to say “Oh well!” I wanted to cry. I put my coat on instead.

We went to Eyz Wide Shut last night and the other couple was there. I don’t know what everyone else is thinking, but I have no intention of hooking up with them again. Miguel and the girl are still going on as if nothing bad happened. Miguel just popped his head out and told me about something about what they experienced last night. I guess they are still texting each other. I have tried to express to him how this made me feel, if I really said what I am thinking it might end up in a fight. I don’t want to fight. I don’t think he realizes the blow my ego has taken. He has done this twice now. The first time it was probably me, now I see that I need to address this. I know some would say I should shrug it off. This is just sex, and we are swingers after all. I can’t just shrug it off. I need to pause and address this before I continue. I feel like my trust has been violated no matter if it was by accident or omission.

I am just ranting now, sorry. We are suppose to be this really secure couple and we don’t fight. Those that really know us, they know that’s not true. I pout and cast silent storms when I am upset. After years of blowing up and screaming I just get quiet now. It is better that I don’t scream and say things I will probably regret later. My tongue can be razor sharp. I think we are going to be a soft swap couple for a while. Probably, this is no big deal and we will recover to play another day. Hopefully, it will truly be same room only next time. About the worst thing a swinger couple could do to each other is break their own rules. I talk about it here because I don’t have very many outlets to talk about these kinds of problems. I just need to vent and tell the whole story. I need to really put this into perspective so I can start to get over it.

Newbie Play

Eyz Wide Shut

Saturday was Eyz Wide Shut night. I do not usually pursue couples at the club. I found some friends and settled in to what I though would be a nice repeat of swaps past. A very sexy female is having a birthday next Saturday and we mused about how fun and hot it would be to make a video. The couple is getting a hotel next Saturday near Eyz so it should be a whole lotta fun!

Anyways, I was sure our hook-up would be with them. Then a very sexy couple walked in. I got a bit bold and approached them. I was very interested in the guy, she was very hot as well. I am not as suave as Miguel. My approach is basically this; “Hey, we think you are hot! Here’s our card. No pressure, but I wanna play with you both. Contact us if you are interested.” Don’t tell me how bad this sounds, I already know. I am not the social butterfly when a hook-up is on the line. Turns out they were brand spanking new, or at least she was, to swinging. Mmm, newbie couple! I literally gave them our card, and told them I hoped they had a good night. It is amazing that this approach produced anything at all

I tried to blow it off. I probably just blew it with them. We danced and drank and socialized with all the regulars. I looked over about an hour later and they were sitting with another couple. This produced a bit of lecture from Miguel about how I need to follow-through a bit more. “Ya, ya I know Babe. I see that now.” Damn it! Oh well! I was still standing next to the sexiest man in the room, I was going to get laid regardless.

We headed over to play, just the two of us. We really haven’t been having as much sex at home, so our sex at the club was so fucking hot. Miguel tried to stop short of cuming, pulled out and everything. “Let’s go back and have some more fun.” “Ya, okay. I just want to cum one more time. Could you rub my clit, Oh yeah! Just like that!” I wanted to taste him so bad, he wouldn’t let me suck his cock. He knew he would explode in my mouth, that I would not stop. I gave him a hand job as he dittled my clit to multiple orgasms. “Please let me taste it. I want you to cum all over me.” He came with a few grunts, standing next to me his cum landed all over my torso. His hand was slick with my cum, as well. It was kind of early, but we had some awesome play time. We headed back to the club to get something to eat. We ended up there for almost an hour. We were pretty spent.

Then the newbie couple approached us. “We want to take you up on your offer.” Oh shit! I looked over at Miguel, but we were already walking over to the other side. I was happy that they felt comfortable enough to approach us. Another round of play, hell yes! Round two actually didn’t go so smoothly. I did make him cum, which kinda pissed her off since when they came over to play earlier he couldn’t cum with her. He didn’t get me off with the sex and he knew it. I think it was the whole pressure of the situation, he had a hard time getting it back up for another round. He had a hard time getting it up the first time, too. Never mind that Miguel had similar problems, this guy was younger than Miguel. Much younger. I only will exert so much into trying to get a guy hard before I just give up. He was pretty determined but I was done. He was pretty embarrassed about it. I kept telling him that it was okay. That there was alot of pressure in the room. He was such a good kisser. I could have spent all night with his mouth. The fact that a dick was part of the package was just a bonus. She was very hot. Despite her saying she had no desire to be with a woman, she had an eager mouth. Her hands explored my body freely. I did not press her for more, I just let it happen. She definitely would have allowed more, but I really wanted her to have control with this first swap. Come to find out she was only 22! I wish I had been so bold at that age.

They have our card. Maybe we will get a chance for a re-match with this sexy duo. I wish Miguel would have been able to rock her more. I would have loved to see that. We watched them for a bit, but performance issues got in the way. Blame it on the condom, the location, the instability of the relationship (they seemed to not know if they were a “couple” or not), the stranger factor, the alcohol, or the fact that another man was in the room. There are so many reasons why he might not have been able to get it up. I will not hold it against him. I think he had too much else to offer and I would welcome another chance to let him rock me. I know he could.

Until next time Lovelies, keep it sexy!

6-Some Fun!

Miguel and I headed out to Eyz Wide Shut on Saturday for their Halloween Party. Swingers have the best Halloween parties. The place was packed with sexy people, most were in costume. Miguel and I were dressed up as well.

We both agreed that we needed a full swap for tonight. We don’t usually head out with an agenda other than to have a great time, this night was different. Last week we met a couple at the castle, this week they showed up at Eyz to meet us a again. As soon as I saw the guy I knew we had our play couple for the night. I really like this couple. She is a blond super fun and very sexy, a bit on the wild side but not overly aggressive. She almost reminds me of a porn star, or what I think they would be like anyways. He is very handsome as well and he has a devilish smile, very sexy. I wanted him bad and I told him as much. I made sure to keep tabs on where they were all night, no way we were going to miss playing with them!

A funny thing happened though, another couple that we had previously soft swapped with were there. She is a brunette. They are a very sexy couple, (read all about our last hook-up with them here). We have had much fun playing with this couple, but they were only soft swap. They obviously wanted to play with us as well, so we had a bit of a dilemma. We danced all together to get everyone a bit acquainted. I knew the first couple was down to play. I spoke to the man in the soft swap couple and he said they had never full swapped but that she was very interested in a full swap with us. Okay we had our players, so we headed over to the lodging play.

The details are very clear to me. The place was packed so we had to wait a few minutes in the hall for a room. The room we got had a bed and a lover’s couch in it. I had Miguel bring my bag of toys but we didn’t use any of them. After a few awkward moments everyone stripped down and the fuck fest began. The blond and I were still wearing our stockings, her in white thigh highs and me in lace top fishnets. I can only really tell you my part here, there was so much swapping going on it was hard to keep up with everyone…

I started out by sucking the blond’s man off. I really wanted him. I laid down to give someone better access to me and then I was laying back and I had the guy eating me out and fingering me to orgasm. I looked over and Miguel was playing with the blond -fingering, eating and then fucking her. The brunette and I were making out and her man was eating her out. I laid there for a long time while the players moved around me. Despite Miguel’s best efforts to get over to her, the other guy got to fuck the brunette first. The girls came up each one to me kissing sucking, eating, fingering. I was in heaven! At one point I had four people on me. The brunette found her way down to eat me out, she has such great oral skills and I tried to suck her man off at the same time but I could barely concentrate on it. Yes, She is that good! I fucked the blond’s guy first, then the brunettes man. He is so sexy but he seemed a bit distracted by his chick. I had to remember that this was their first full swap. Although the brunette was a bit used to playing with others with him in the room, he was not. I really didn’t wanna take anything away from him getting to watch her, and I got a feeling we will get to play with them again.

Miguel fucked me after that. I could tell where Miguel was at all the time because he really fucks hard and with him there is always the sound of bodies slapping at a furious pace. The brunette and I played and kissed for a long while, then she went to fuck her man. At this point, Miguel was laying on the lover’s couch with the blond sucking his cock and her man was fucking her from behind. That was such an awesome sight with the big mirror behind them. The brunette was riding her man in a slow orgasmic fuck. The blond had to stop for some reason and I got on the edge of the couch and laid back so he could fuck me. Miguel watched and cheered me on. Then he had me flip over so he could get me doggie style. I sat up and looked at myself in the mirror. Damn, I am turned on just thinking about how hot it looked. I love getting fucked from behind.

There were used condoms and wrappers all over the room. I am pretty sure everyone sucked and fucked each player. This was our first full swap with two couples at the same time. It was hard to pay attention to everyone and I would really like to play with each of these couples again, individually. A 6-some is something I didn’t even know was on our list of things to do, but I can cross it off now anyways! This Halloween party was pretty with legendary, I can’t wait for another chance to play! Yesterday I was still so turned on thinking about the 6-some I couldn’t stop playing with Miguel. This resulted in impromptu mid-day sex and a blow job. (I really love sucking his cock!)

Happy Halloween Lovelies!